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writes: Hey all,i was looking for my problem on net and found this site. I am 27yrs old and my hubby is 28 and we both love each other but the problem is i take lots of time in getting aroused plus i feel pain after sex. and i also cannot concentrate during preplay. Can anybody help.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): I have the same problem and I yeah I find it hard to get aroused/wet. It gets frustrating and I love my partner so much. After sex I feel quite sore and red. Takes me a while to orgasm aswell. So i can understand what you are saying. Apparently stress and worrying about it can have a major role on arousal. Also if you're on any medication (im on the pill so i find that affects me) and anit-depressents. You should go talk to your doctor or someone who specialises in that area :)
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (6 April 2006):
 Your GP is the first place you need to go. You need to be checked out. Nobody on here can give you the help you need as they cannot do a physical exam.
Good luck
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reader, Hunny Bunny +, writes (6 April 2006):
Have you spoke to your Husband about these problems? i suggest doing so. Maybe try askin him to ues a comdom so that hes doesn,t orgasum inside you as some women find that when there partners do this it causes them sum pain after sex. Also try using a wash desingned especailly for women after havin sex to wash an restore the ph balance of your vagina. As for taking a while to get arosed i suggest that you stop worrying about getin aroused an enjoy yourself as often women spend more time worring about it rather than enjoying it. It will happen in its own time. And im sure your husband is not complaining about it as its more fun for him!!!!
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