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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Her parents want us to take a test to see if we had sex
Q. MOD NOTE: All signs point to the fact that the poster cannot be 33. okay i had sex with this girl and her parents kinda know so now they want us to go take a test to see if we did and i never cum in her would they still find out?...
A. 27 July 2010: A test to see if you had sex? Or a pregnancy test... or a test for STDs?
I hope you're using condoms and that you understand how to prevent STDs and pregnancy.
Please get educated about how to protect yourself and your girlfriend from ... (read in full...)
What do I do about the towel/tampons?
Q. Hey, this is entirely embarrassing for me so please don't laugh or leave a patronizing message. I'm 15 and have recently gotten with my boyfriend, we're fine and comfortable - everything that I expect from him. But even the best trust stops ...
A. 27 July 2010: Isn't there a bin in the toilet room? Just bring a small brown paper bag, wrap it up in that and dispose of it.
Tampons are usually flushable, but in some buildings, the plumbing just can't handle it.
This isn't a dumb question, it's u... (read in full...)
Would you care if if your boyfriend was circumsized or not?
Q. Ok, a few weeks ago i had the opportunity to have sex with a girl for the 1st time, but i held out...because I am un-circumcised and was afraid of what she would think because i know most people are circumcised and i know she had been with a couple ...
A. 26 July 2010: I see that your country flag is USA, but are you originally from another country? Even though most guys in USA are circumcised, in most countries, the majority of guys are not circumcised. No, I do not know this from personal experience ~blushes~ ... (read in full...)
Does penis size determine if a woman will stay in the relationship?
Q. Is penis size a major deciding factor on if a women will stay in the relationship, or leave?...
A. 26 July 2010: I can honestly say that I could not care less about penis size. By the time I see a guy's penis, I'll already love him (I hope) and if you truly love someone, then your feelings won't change just because he has a small penis. The other post... (read in full...)
I want another dog but he said "no" with a load of silly reasons!
Q. Hello I really don't know where to start but I'll try my husband is an only child and I'm not sure if this is where the problem is I can have anything I want materialistaly but any thing else is a no no we did try for a baby without sucsess and now ...
A. 26 July 2010: Hi,
As someone whose life was probably saved by a dog as a child, I have a strong bias in favor of dogs. I'm not putting you down, but when you bring an animal into your home you have to think of what's in the best interest of the animal. ... (read in full...)
What does a women look for in a man?
Q. What is one of the first things or characteristics a women sees when looking at a man for the first time(potential boyfriend)?...
A. 26 July 2010: Daniel is correct; it's all relative.
Two things come to mind when someone asks me what I look for in a man.
The first criterion is one that not every single woman will mention but it means everything to me.
Someone who appreciat... (read in full...)
Should I have a circumcision?
Q. I'm in a little dilemma. I'm 15 years old and uncircumcised. I'm embarrassed about it. I don't know if I should get circumcised. If I decide to do it, what would be the right age to have the procedure done? ...
A. 17 July 2010: The majority of men in the world are NOT circumcised; the United States is one of the few countries where circumcision is the norm. Unless it's for religious reasons, I don't see the point to being circumcised. I would discuss this with a Dr. ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband want me to have sex with a black man?
Q. Can't understand why husband wants me to have sexual acts with a black man !! Iam soo hurt and can't understand!!...
A. 16 July 2010: Is this a joke?
I'm not trying to be mean and I shouldn't judge you.
The guy's race has nothing to do with it; it would be immoral for you to have sex with ANY man other than your husband! The fact that it's a black man in particular is ir... (read in full...)
I'm 13, he's 20, and I want to have sex with him, but will he leave me afterwards?
Q. Hey all im a 13 year old girl and my bf is 20 im a virgin and well this has been my first real bf we have been together 4months and well i want to take it to the next step and have sex. i know he probably will want to as well but im just a bit ...
A. 15 July 2010: He's 20 years old... if he wants to have sex with you, then he belongs in JAIL!!!! If this guy wants to have sex with you, he's a scumbag, and a pedophile. Stay the hell away from this guy! He has no morals. If he had even the tiniest smidge of ... (read in full...)
My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend because he's of a different race!
Q. i have met and fallen in love with a guy, we dream of a future together, but inside my heart is breaking. I am caucasion, he is black. The problem seems to be with my father and brothers. They are all racist, so i am to scared to introduce m...
A. 14 July 2010: It's a shame that your relatives are so racist.
There's nothing wrong with whites marrying/dating blacks, and you and I know that. You can't change your family, but perhaps if they got to know your family, they would realize that he's a good per... (read in full...)
How far can Christians go sexually without violating our faith?
Q. I'm 17 years old and have been with my bf 6 months. I am a Christian and am unsure how far sexually it is ok to go. He has fingered me and I've given him a handjob but have began to think this is wrong and so my question is, how far, as a Christian, ...
A. 13 July 2010: I'm not going to judge you because the other aunt is right in saying that no one should do that.
Miamine is totally right. Think about whether Jesus would approve of your actions; that's how I make decisions.
I was raised Southern Baptist... (read in full...)
I want to work in porn but am worried about my boyfriend, its not fair!
Q. I need help!?! With all the pressure from everyone asking what am I going to do with my life after I graduate high school I had no idea and I talked to my bf about working in porn because it seemed like something I would enjoy and get paid well for. ...
A. 13 July 2010: I'm not going to accuse you of trolling, but if you're feeling bad about it, you should not do it. Having sex with someone else when you're in a relationship is totally cheating. Doing what's right isn't easy and this is one of those situations.
... (read in full...)
Is it better to live on your own or with a friend?
Q. Hi guys, my apologies for this not being a question of love, rather a life matter, but I would really appreciate your advice. I currently live with my sister who just recently got a job and is moving to another country. I now have to decide to ...
A. 13 July 2010: You have to be careful about living with friends! I've had friends who became roommates and it nearly killed the friendship... for awhile they hated each other. It was a shame because they were really close. I think that we ALL do things that are ... (read in full...)
Is it better to live on your own or with a friend?
Q. Hi guys, my apologies for this not being a question of love, rather a life matter, but I would really appreciate your advice. I currently live with my sister who just recently got a job and is moving to another country. I now have to decide to ...
A. 13 July 2010: You have to be careful about living with friends! I've had friends who became roommates and it nearly killed the friendship... for awhile they hated each other. It was a shame because they were really close. I think that we ALL do things that are ... (read in full...)
I want to work in porn but am worried about my boyfriend, its not fair!
Q. I need help!?! With all the pressure from everyone asking what am I going to do with my life after I graduate high school I had no idea and I talked to my bf about working in porn because it seemed like something I would enjoy and get paid well for. ...
A. 13 July 2010: Maybe this poster is a troll (thanks for the heads up) and I apologize if you're not.
However my answer may help someone, somewhere out there.
As an American I didn't realize that there was a whole world out there and that there were ways ... (read in full...)
Healthier eating???
Q. First of all, this isn't really a relationship question, but i do need help. Anyway, I've recently started living with my dad, who isn't married, and doesn't have a girlfriend. He also has NO IDEA how to cook, so he always eats out at places li...
A. 13 July 2010: Italian and chinese dishes have lots of quick, easy vegetarian recipies
Ditto for Indian food!
Either one beats the hell out of McDonalds and Wendys. :)
I love Spanish food (and anything else Spanish); tortilla española (Spanish omelet... (read in full...)
How do I ignore her tattoo?
Q. Ok, well i have a really strong dislike about tatoos. And my girlfriend agrees with me that they are disrespectful. Well she asked me if it's alright if she gets a tatoo, im am in no way a controlling person. I told her it's fine ill just ignore it. ...
A. 9 July 2010: I don't think tattoos are disrespectful! You really CAN'T judge a book by its cover and tattoos have nothing to do with a person's inner character. I think they're sexy on guys; I don't want one for myself but I wouldn't judge someone for having ... (read in full...)
How would you feel if your boyfriend was wanking behind your back?
Q. hi im hoping you can give me your views as im a little confussed and to be honest feel a bit cheated, can anyone give me there views how would you feel and what would you do and say if you found out your boyfriend was wanking behind your back whilst ...
A. 8 July 2010: I don't think he realized you'd be hurt. All guys wank!
I'm just curious, though.
How did you find out that he was wanking while you were asleep?
Men need that stimulation but it's not cheating or unfaithful when it's his own body; that'... (read in full...)
Do women actually cum too???
Q. Just to let you know i am 16 but for some reason it hasnt changed my age on here:/ Do women actually cum? I know this sounds strange but my boyfreind asks me during sex if im about to cum but i dont know. if so what happens?? or do i just not re...
A. 8 July 2010: Yes, and no.
The biological purpose of ejaculate is to release sperm which fertilize an egg and make a little human!
When women become aroused, they sometimes secrete a vaginal discharge, the purpose of which is to lubricate the vagina... ki... (read in full...)
Scared to give a blowjob because of the way it tastes!
Q. My boyfriend asked me to give him a blowjob but I dont want too because he'll cum in my mouth I never tasted cum before and if i dont like it i'll be afraid I'll get sick so what does Cum taste like?...
A. 8 July 2010: I will take y'alls word for it about the taste, hehe.
I hope you guys are wearing a condom?
... (read in full...)
I am 15, want to be a porn star, any suggestions?
Q. i am 15 and i want to be a pornstar so bad any tips?...
A. 8 July 2010: Why do you want to be a porn star?
I see you're 15... in three years you'll be legal. But, that's plenty of time to look into other things! I bet you have loads of talents and have potential for something meaningful; porn is degrading.
Furt... (read in full...)
Bleeding sex!!!
Q. My bf and i had sex for the first time today. it was not how i expected it to be at all. halfway through he says your bleeding. first of all is it normal and how long does it last?...
A. 8 July 2010: I've read repeatedly that your first sexual intercourse is not gonna be the best sexual experience of your life, so don't despair. I hear it gets better.
The bleeding is probably the result of your hymen breaking, if it's your first time. ... (read in full...)
Virgin in need of help!
Q. I'm a single virgin and I'm so horny to the point where I just want to give it up. However, I also want to wait for the right guy. Masturbating and porn isn't satisfying me at all. How do I deal with this? Please don't tell me to find a boyfriend ...
A. 8 July 2010: I feel your pain! I'm older than you, and I've never done THAT with anyone. I was raised strict Southern Baptist and I don't believe everything I was taught (I'm still a Christian, but I'm a lot more open minded) and I don't even remember vowing ... (read in full...)
I think my father is cheating on my mother
Q. hey Well for the past two or three years I've been having this sort of feeling that my father has been cheating on my mother. Almost every single night he stays out till three in the morning. and I even caught him lying about who he was talking t...
A. 7 July 2010: You shouldn't have to bear this alone! Do you have an adult that you trust, with whom you can talk to about this? An relative, or perhaps a teacher, priest or pastor? ... (read in full...)
Can I get in trouble at work for what I post on FB?
Q. Need some advice and have been on internet but can't find any info. I basically need to know if your manager is on maternity leave can she get you in trouble? I have acess to my facebook and usually update my status on breaks etc.. Now I ...
A. 7 July 2010: DELETE IT NOW!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Scared I'm no longer a virgin!
Q. well i need help. i am so scared that i am not a virgin, because my boyfriend and i decided to play around and i want to know if am still a virgin if he fingered me...
A. 7 July 2010: If all he did was finger you, and it didn't involve a penis in a vagina, then you are still a virgin.
But, you're playing with fire. You shouldn't be doing anything sexual at your age!
Imagine your love live as a movie... if it's not appropr... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and I have no friends. What can I do to change that?
Q. Most people my age have friends. A couple of good friends and shopbuddies, people they go out with and facebook people. I have pretty much none. I used to have a close friend (we knew eachother since we were 7) but we grew apart over time and be...
A. 7 July 2010: I was in a very similar situation at your age; I was still in college. My parents moved our family from Florida to North Carolina when I was in high school and it SUCKED... I spent every lunch hour crying in the guidance office because I didn't ... (read in full...)
I left my husband, but now the guy I had feelings for won't see me.
Q. I'm married (now separated). While still with my husband, I met a guy online who I knew years ago. We flirted with each other off and on for months. We didn't meet up because of my marriage. We still flirted and fantasized about being together. I ...
A. 7 July 2010: I see you're still married, not divorced. Is there any possibility of reconciling with your husband? Do you want to? It's worth a try even though I imagine he's terribly hurt. You need to know the truth, and I'm certainly not gonna lie... being ... (read in full...)
What is a good quote for a tattoo - to show I have overcome depression?
Q. I suffered from severe depression in the past and want to get a tattoo to show that I have overcome it. I want to get a quote. does anyone have any suggestions...
A. 6 July 2010: A butterfly... a symbol of freedom... (read in full...)
Did I shave myself incorrectly?
Q. Please please help me! It's stupid but everyone said they shave their vagina, so I decided I had to try it. I look under other questions on this web and used the answers eg use a razor and the lips the hardest part .. So I've done it now, and I ...
A. 6 July 2010: Tonight the part of Eyes will be played by me:
"Oh noooooo!!!! Not another pubic hair questions!!!"
Just kidding... Eyes (another aunt) always gave some really good advice... and I don't mind these questions... just a little inside joke, we ... (read in full...)
Did I shave myself incorrectly?
Q. Please please help me! It's stupid but everyone said they shave their vagina, so I decided I had to try it. I look under other questions on this web and used the answers eg use a razor and the lips the hardest part .. So I've done it now, and I ...
A. 6 July 2010: Tonight the part of Eyes will be played by me:
"Oh noooooo!!!! Not another pubic hair questions!!!"
Just kidding... Eyes (another aunt) always gave some really good advice... and I don't mind these questions... just a little inside joke, we ... (read in full...)
Going commando?
Q. Hey, 25 y.o. straight male here... A strange question really. Hope you can help! Over the years I have found that going commando (wearing no underwear) in jeans is a real turn-on, for both myself and in women. I love the thought that tha...
A. 6 July 2010: You seem to have what is known as a fetish, my friend. Daniel is right! You're going to hurt your junk if you're not careful. Tisha's idea is good too... or you could take your jeans to an alteration place and have the zipper replaced with a line ... (read in full...)
My husband has a problem with hygiene!
Q. Hey all, quick question. My husband has a problem with hygiene, such as I have to "tell" him to brush his teeth, or to take a shower...I find it disgusting, and a HUGE turn-off. I don't want to be rude about it, but I want the problem to be fixed. ...
A. 6 July 2010: Ew, gross! How can anyone STAND to walk around dirty?
Marriedlady... I feel for u. He's 19? Whoa. When I was 19, I was Miss Priss. Still am!!
I would just tell him that you love him but that this is bugging you, and a real turn-off. ... (read in full...)
Help me to get abdominal muscles please?
Q. *OP's Original Title* I am a 18 year old male. I have tried to look around for tips/routines/exercises around various searches on the internet but cant seem to find anything that isn't "register" or "pay"... Does anybody know, do or have don...
A. 21 June 2010: You should definitely join a gym, and if you have the $$$ it would be ideal to get a personal trainer to design a plan and help you with your workouts.
I noticed that you live in Britain.
I've heard of a chain of gyms called "Fitness First" over ... (read in full...)
Farewell from an aunt
Q. After being an aunt on this wonderful site for well over 5 years, I've decided to finally see the writing on the wall and call it quits. I truly gave it my best shot and spoke the truth as I know it to be. I will always treasure my time here and the ...
A. 21 June 2010: Goodbye Eyes, and thanks for everything.
Why are you leaving, if I may ask? I'm just curious.... (read in full...)
"you don't look like a virgin" when you are is that a insult?
Q. Hey, I was wondering when some one says "you dont look like a virgin" when you are is that a insult? Guys and girls both ask me this and most of the time say i dont look like one or seem like one. Does that mean i look or act like a slut some how to ...
A. 23 May 2010: It's nobody's business! People can be really ignorant. I can understand why they say this, though... many people rush into having sex at a young age (and later regret it). I do think you're overthinking this. It's admirable that you've decided ... (read in full...)
Why stinky toes?
Q. Dear Cupid. I know this isn't about sex or relationship but it's generally about my body. When I cut the nails of my big toes, I cut them as far as I can and when i do that, this horrible smell comes out and I think it's because in an already si...
A. 23 May 2010: It doesn't sound like anything horribly serious, but if I were you, I'd see a doctor. It's probably bacteria, or a fungus.
Feet are gross!! Anyone's feet. I don't like 'em and never did. ... (read in full...)
Should I just get it over with and lose my virginity?
Q. I'll try to just get straight to the point) I am a 20 year old female who is STRONGLY considering losing my virginity, but not to anyone I particularly love, or even trust, but because the offer has been put out there by another co-worker a few ...
A. 19 May 2010: CindyCares, that was well said.
Don't just throw it away! Nooooo!! If you don't wanna wait until marriage, at least wait until you love someone mutually with your whole heart; he'll come along. Don't let some guy just use you and then throw yo... (read in full...)
How do I get this depressed feeling out of my chest?
Q. Hello I'm soo depressed and I feel is killing me inside. Sometimes I wake up feeling ok and others days feeling down and I throw up and I dnt even eat. How can I make or what do I do so I won't think negative. When I think negative is when I get ...
A. 10 May 2010: No one can give medical advice on the internet, but we can listen.
You need to talk to a professional counselor dear. Don't despair if you don't "click" with the first one; sometimes you have to go through a series.
I have been there, and ... (read in full...)
Changing his passwords on his accounts--says its "his business not mine"
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together a year, living together for 6 months. Last week he changed his hotmail and facebook passwords out of no where. He says its his business and none of mine. Why the sudden change? Should I be worried something is ...
A. 10 May 2010: Tell me, did you do something to violate his trust, eg snooping? Or, did he simply change the passwords out of the blue? You say he did it out of nowhere... have you asked him why he did it? People need space in relationships but a reasonable ... (read in full...)
People bully me in school, about my weight! Help!
Q. Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, Okay, i've been going through some tough things right now the biggest thing i've just accepted is my sexuality wich i'm now happy with! Well the problem thats been going on from when i was 08 until now which is...
A. 10 May 2010: Hi,
First of all, please go to your parents and tell them about the situation at school.
I know that you feel all alone and you're at an age that is especially awkward and turbulent. But, you're not. Loads of kids are going through the same... (read in full...)
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