My boyfriend was trying to get me to leave the room to masterbate!
Q. Ok, so if you've ever seen those things on the internet where the girl or guy is asking for help because they walked in on their partner masterbating, well here's another one. Now you see, i don't have a problem with the guy masterbating, bu...
A. 24 August 2010: hi,
discussions with him arnt needed. ask advisors about their experience as well...
just do it.
dont hide from responsability about your relationship
if people was running away everytime things went wrong, the term love was shipped to trash... (read in full...)
Lost hope
Q. Dear agony aunts i'm a male living with no hope in my life any more, i feel like i will never be normal again. i feeling sick with chest pains,always constapated,skin colour darkened by the unknown sickness i have, low sex drive and have lost ...
A. 24 August 2010: Hi,
what youre telling here describes a situation that needs a treatment.
dont choose your drugs please, it might make your situation worse.
those are common feelings. you should get yourself exemined by a professional, you will find your answear... (read in full...)
Will this girl ever be able to end this unhealthy relationship for good?
Q. A friend of mine who is in a possessive relationship with a guy for 5 years. There have been many break ups in her relationship but then she patched back. She tells me he controls her and she got slapped by him once in the past. She tells me she has ...
A. 23 August 2010: Hi,
i see youre into her, but few things must be certain about.
if her dude gets violent you must Introduce a third-party intervention.
this is not nonsense at all. she might get mentaly (Not to mention physicaly) scars for life. you- who knows ab... (read in full...)
13 and may have missed a period......I'm so scared of being pregnant!
Q. Ok so im 13 and me and my boyfriend had sex,we used the take out method and now theres only 1 week of august left and i still havent had my period.I dont want to tell my mom that me and my boyfriend did anything but i did tell her i think i missed a ...
A. 23 August 2010: Hi,
most important! get your mom to escort you no matter what you do. ask her to keep your dad out of it so you wont get embarrassed.
THIS has no relation to your parents being divorced at all.
both of them are willing for your good.
you s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was trying to get me to leave the room to masterbate!
Q. Ok, so if you've ever seen those things on the internet where the girl or guy is asking for help because they walked in on their partner masterbating, well here's another one. Now you see, i don't have a problem with the guy masterbating, bu...
A. 23 August 2010: Hey writer, Dont forget to update:)
@for agonyauntj,
although i might see things a bit different from you,
i belive that The mind is influenced by body just like the body is influenced by the mind.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was trying to get me to leave the room to masterbate!
Q. Ok, so if you've ever seen those things on the internet where the girl or guy is asking for help because they walked in on their partner masterbating, well here's another one. Now you see, i don't have a problem with the guy masterbating, bu...
A. 22 August 2010: Hi,
here is a summery you should follow...
are you used hanging up nude around him for last month?
-constant nudity leavs no room for imagination. men prefer staring at your bra than your breasts. he probably got used to your body and it dos... (read in full...)
Are we mutually using each other?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6.5 years, living together for the last 2 years. We've been arguing/discussing about separating for the last 1.5 months. I don't understand why he wants to stay in the relationship - like what's in it for ...
A. 22 August 2010: Hi,
Nope... it is you using him.
but, lets not start looking for motives...
if you have guilt- make your way out of it.
if you dont- live with it.
also, you should be aware that thats how relationships usualy ends. you can try to work it or yo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was trying to get me to leave the room to masterbate!
Q. Ok, so if you've ever seen those things on the internet where the girl or guy is asking for help because they walked in on their partner masterbating, well here's another one. Now you see, i don't have a problem with the guy masterbating, bu...
A. 22 August 2010: Hi, your bf might lost passion with you... if you live together, there might be few explanations are you used hanging up nude around him for last month? do you do things out of the house when he stays or the opposit? do you live alone or w... (read in full...)
How do we tackle the disagreements before we marry?
Q. Hi I am due to get married in 3 months time and am getting anxious that me and my finace have different expectations about what marriage will mean to us. We have recently bought a house together, but I feel he is constantly testing the boun...
A. 21 August 2010: Hi,
does he has any married friend?
hes friens might have Influence when it comes to commitment and marrige. usualy, men turn to think this is the end of their youth and old habbits with friends..
their friends might treat the occasion as ... (read in full...)
Should I drop it and move on?
Q. I met this girl at a law function (we are both in law school) and we talked most of the night, then went to an 80's party together. I got her number, and asked her to dinner (she smiled and agreed). We went out and had a great time, we went back ...
A. 21 August 2010: Hi,
seems that youre taking it the right way,
i think you should hold on one day, try to meet her at school that day.
if wont be possible, text a 'sweet dreams' msg or call at the evening
holding it should make her better ready.
although... (read in full...)
Total Babe in One-sided Open Marriage
Q. I am an average looking/height guy, though I make a good salary. I have been married about ten years. My wife is a beauty -- very attractive/sexy. She gets a lot of attention almost everywhere we go, even if she's only wearing sweats and a ...
A. 21 August 2010: Hi,
you think she might lose her european atitude if it will come to you? ie. if you had sex with anyone else?
one more thing is women reach their sexual peak at age 40-50 such as men does in their 19th.
this is an issue you must discuss firs... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Hi,
i choose to disagree with you oldersister.
Who determines what is necessary for good sex life and whats not?
do you eat pizza? whys that? its not necessary... but it taste good.
also i dont agree with the addiction farce youve written.
... (read in full...)
Are his reasons for breaking up with me ridiculous?
Q. My bf broke up with me and the main reasons were that I get insecure because I've been cheated on in the past, I understand its not good and fair to treat him that way because of my ex bfs' doing and I was trying to work on that.. But now he say...
A. 21 August 2010: Hi,
his demands are very ridiculous for sure.
you shouldnt be treated as Obvious at all.
the other thing is you should lose weight for yourself and not for anyone else.
although it is your outfit that makes the first impression
which is... (read in full...)
Why do people keep photos of their ex?
Q. Why do people keep photos of their ex'? I girl i've been seeing for almost a year keep photos albums of her ex' on her bookshelf in the living room. There must be hundreds of them. Should i be freaking out here? She gets angry if i keep anything ...
A. 21 August 2010: Hi,
is she still in contact with the guy? or with friends of him? working together, anything?
keeping photos is ok as long as its not infront of your eyes in the livingroom... scan it into the pc is better, people has past and they dosnt have to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants us to have sex in front of other people...
Q. We've dated almost a year and a half now and lived together most of that time. A couple months ago we had a long discussion regarding his fantasies. To be exact, the moment arrised as I lay in full glory after having had 30 consecutive gushing ...
A. 21 August 2010: Hi,
youre right not to agree with this if it isnt your scene.
also there might be a place you can meet in the middle.
a guy thinking about third party sex is more reliable than a guy who keeps his fantacies secret...
you can suggest other ac... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to let my guard down with him!
Q. Boyfriend goes through extreme lengths to chase me then avoids me. Let me start by saying, I am currently in school full time and will be graduating in June with my Bachelor's degree. I also have a full time job and am interning with a 2 local b...
A. 21 August 2010: Hi,
basicly there are people who goes into relationships only after they guaranteed their careers. others are afraid the relationship might sabotage their success.
you should discuss with him, either he will make scheduled time for you more tha... (read in full...)
How can I get over the nervousness and embarresment?
Q. Recently i've watched friends and just general people my age start relationships, to be totally honest this hasn't bothered me until recently. I've thought about it and i'm geniunly upset about the fact I don't feel I have the ability to get a ...
A. 21 August 2010: Hi,
youre alright,
first times always seems to be impossible
basicly, you should gain more intimate activities with her,
just have fun together. try not to be too much close (dont agree with everything she says if you dont really, make you... (read in full...)
I want a serious relationship not a long term booty call?!
Q. I was seeing a guy off and on for the last 4yrs. We were friends only friends the first 6 months then we slept together. I wanted a serious relationship u know I'm ur man ur my woman type of relationship. But when it came to putting a title on it we ...
A. 20 August 2010: Hi,
i agree with cerberus. you should make it his call.
either youre taking the next step (such as moving together or anything similar) or it will end.
dont waste your time...... (read in full...)
Update: "How can I truly rid myself of this married man?"
Q. Update: I am the one who asked "How can I truly rid myself of this married man?" Well, I haven't "shaken" dude away from me yet. I keep going back and forth. He came over to my house (no, we weren't intimate). I started to cry because I wanted to be ...
A. 20 August 2010: Hi,
youre inlove with him for two major resons
1. it is a forbidden relationship
2. it is known for 99% to you that you wont make him leave his family
he knows he wont have to leave, he dosnt argue with you or make you think about any futu... (read in full...)
We only kissed but now he thinks it was something special!
Q. How can someone be so desperate? I went on a road trip with one of my friends, we had agreed that what ever happend on this road trip stayed there, not to get attached or enything, plus i knew him well and knew he slept around so he isnt really m...
A. 20 August 2010: you really dont wanna know what i really do think of love
although, i have a gf for almost two years :)
it is more about settling your mind and demands... (read in full...)
We only kissed but now he thinks it was something special!
Q. How can someone be so desperate? I went on a road trip with one of my friends, we had agreed that what ever happend on this road trip stayed there, not to get attached or enything, plus i knew him well and knew he slept around so he isnt really m...
A. 20 August 2010: man whores has feelings too, trust me i know ;)... (read in full...)
Was there another girl involved or was I assuming things?
Q. I was dating a guy for 3 months! He spend everynight at my house but everything we did was out of town never in the city we live in! He started putting his phone on vibrate or turning it off all together at night! He started to show up at my house ...
A. 20 August 2010: hi,
dont forget, you know him only for 3 months.
he probably had earlier relatives before he met you.
he might had a long one either or any other complicated relationship.
sometimes, staying and resolving issues build trust and meeting you a gr... (read in full...)
He's confused and wants to take a break, but wants to be in a relationship and likes me. What to do?
Q. Ok, so I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 4 months now. Before a few days ago, our time together has been amazing, every date is perfect and we have so much fun. We see eachother twice a week, he's a total gentlemen, he plans our ...
A. 20 August 2010: Hi,
there might be several causes for his behavior.
did he meet your parents? did you meet yours?
do you know his friends? does he know yours?
if so, do you have common friends you can consult?
is there a possibility he wants to get physica... (read in full...)
My wife has lost interest in sex!
Q. my wife aged 36 has suddenly lost interest in sex . she just wants to masturbate once in a week or so while i want sex twice a day and that to a wild one and she says that the kids will come to know . what do i do ? I hate jacking off?...
A. 20 August 2010: there is no specific answer for your issue.
it is common, but causes are varied.
the right treatment must include your partner.
this is not a QA situation.
she must admit there is a problem, even better if it wont be infront of you- and she mus... (read in full...)
Its only been 4 months since I found out he cheated and I am having a hard time trusting him, but now he is blaming me and says if I carry on he will cheat again!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5years and recently i found out he had cheated on me twice. I love him so much and i stayed with him as he promised to never do it again. But i find it so hard to trust him now and i think i am pushing him away as i ...
A. 20 August 2010: Hi,
first of all, your time together sais it all.
you should not accuse him every time you can, try to reveal more empathy.
when he sais he might cheat again if somthing wont change this is a cry for attention!
take a feedback from a common fr... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have been sleeping with my cousin since the age of 15?
Q. well... i was 15 at the time,and was staying over at my cousin's house, me and my cousin (female) would always play fighting and that.. except this time it got out of hand and we ended up sleeping together... she was 14 at the time... since then ...
A. 20 August 2010: Hi,
few more info is needed for providing a well based answer.
did her or you date other people during this time?
are you still sleep together?
do you find women attractive? and men? does she?... (read in full...)
Was there another girl involved or was I assuming things?
Q. I was dating a guy for 3 months! He spend everynight at my house but everything we did was out of town never in the city we live in! He started putting his phone on vibrate or turning it off all together at night! He started to show up at my house ...
A. 20 August 2010: i think there is an even more simple solution for youre issue, call him and tell him you like to meet in hes place.
there, you can find signs for another woman.
hope you wouldnt =\... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 6 years breaks up with me almost every week!
Q. I have been with my bf almost 6years now and he breaks up with me every week. We always get back together cos i love him. When ever he doesnt like when i do something he leaves me. I dont know what to do this time? I love him as he is my first ...
A. 20 August 2010: Hi,
I dont know what about love between you two.
i can tell that love has other interpretations after 6 years, and even more- bcause those are youre first experimential years.
i would suggest you to refuse the next time he wants to get back to ... (read in full...)
We only kissed but now he thinks it was something special!
Q. How can someone be so desperate? I went on a road trip with one of my friends, we had agreed that what ever happend on this road trip stayed there, not to get attached or enything, plus i knew him well and knew he slept around so he isnt really m...
A. 20 August 2010: things happens. he might be thinking about getting closer to you even before you kissed.
dont be mean to him, hes in a vulnerable situation.
fact that you asked here about it shows you care about how to handle with him.
do it carefuly and let him ... (read in full...)
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