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I can't tell my husband-to-be that I am not a virgin! Help!

Q.   actually im getting married next year so im not a virgin.....but i cant tell my husband that im a virgin..so what i can i do now....i cant tell him coz that will ruin my relationship......so is it possible that can i hide this reality from my ...

A.   5 January 2009: Just don't tell him.. He would never know.. There is no way to know if a girl is virgin or not.. G'day... (read in full...)

Good idea? I put condom on a banana and used it

Q.   Dear cupid, Am i a freak? I was sitting in my room bored with nothing to do. It was a guy friend texting me telling me all these freaky toughts he was having about me. While later on that night I was kind of horny. So i went and got a banana a...

A.   5 January 2009: I am happy you didn't find a cucumber.. !! It's OKAY until you don't try to be too fancy.. !! Keep it to Banana, Carrot etc.. Never use wood or any HARD thing that could hurt you inside.. !! G'day ... (read in full...)

How do I get school to remove bad record?

Q.   When i was in grade 7, I made out wit my bf and the principal caught us. [looool. xD] NOW im worried if it'll b in my permanent record, im a straight A student and bcuz im asian my parents r strict, im not allowed bf's. (until im 20 =.=) im scare...

A.   5 January 2009: School is not a place where you have sex.. !! You don't look bothered about it and a "lol" after every line means you haven't learned from it. !! i have a School of my own and the only thing we want is for a Child to LEARN from his mistake.... (read in full...)

Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl?

Q.   Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl? P.S. For the publishers. You rejected by last post as you said it was a duplicate. But the first post I made (which you are here regarding as the duplicate) was also rejected as it w...

A.   5 January 2009: Hey Aunt ranch, I'd expect you to please concentate on giving your advice rather than calling other people Stupid. As for the 4 inch penis, Almost 99 percent people would agree that a guy offer to be that big. I don't like giving false hop... (read in full...)

Another girl kissed my b/f now my mind is filled with doubt

Q.   my boyfriend went back to his hometown for christmas break and while he was there some girl kissed him. he swears that he didn't kiss her back and that he left right afterwards but i don't know what to do or think about this. I want to completely ...

A.   5 January 2009: Look buddy, I don't want to disturb you further but i am a MAN, and no girl can Kiss me if i don't want.. Did the girl overpower him or What.? And what's this about him not kissing back? A kiss is a kiss.. If if didn't want her to kiss him he c... (read in full...)

Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl?

Q.   Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl? P.S. For the publishers. You rejected by last post as you said it was a duplicate. But the first post I made (which you are here regarding as the duplicate) was also rejected as it w...

A.   4 January 2009: What's your age.? I'm afraid 1 inch penis is not good enough.. It MUST be 4 inches atleast.. You should see a doctor.. But you shouldn't be too worried.. One of my cousin was just 1 inch till the age of 15, but if grew out suddenly in the next 3 y... (read in full...)

I seem to be the only one struggling to hold my bladder and only release twice a day. What should I do?

Q.   As you are already aware - I suffer from OAB. Not only does this influence my sex, love and social life - it also provokes difficulties at school. I attend a boarding school, and teachers love to prevent me from using the toilets, using whatever ...

A.   4 January 2009: If your school teachers know about your condition then this would be regarded as an ABUSE.. You can get them in huge trouble.. All you have to do is REPORT THEM.. You don't have to worsen your condition because of a few mad people.. Just give the... (read in full...)

Spot pregnancy in 3rd day?

Q.   Dear readers! Is it possible to spot pregnancy in the first to third day? Yesterday i was close to being unfortunate as most doctors i could go to were still closed, the clinic was opened, so i went there. And was given two emergency birth control ...

A.   4 January 2009: There is Nothing to panic.. If you have taken the Abortion pill, then there is only 1 percent chance that you would be pregnant.. Actually Morning after pill is 'very light' pill and does not have any side effects. It's very gentle on the stomach ... (read in full...)

My g/f said "you're tiny!"

Q.   Me and my girlfriend had recently progressed our relationship to taking off our clothes.But when I was gaping at her,she laughed at me. She said "Your tiny".I'm a virgin but she isn't. I measured myself and I am a little over 4.5 Inches. I have...

A.   4 January 2009: You're still growing to say the least.. And even 4.5 is good enough.. A woman's vagina is sensitive only upto 3 inches.. You're 1.5 inches extra capable.. Size does not play that big a role buddy.. Atleast 95 percent girls don't mind even a small ... (read in full...)

Questions about pubic hair....

Q.   How do women prefer their man's pubic hair?Completely shaved/Trimmed/Etc? Also why do men like a woman's pubic hair completely shaved? I haven't seen a Vagina or a girl naked in person,but I know I'd prefer for her to have some form of hair oth...

A.   4 January 2009: I myself prefer hair.. It's not as if i don't like shaved girls but i find hair a turn on.. Actually to be truthful, sometimes i like hair, sometimes i like them shaved.. Just depends on my mood.. G'day... (read in full...)

Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?

Q.   Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?...

A.   4 January 2009: I love going down on my girl.. It's just so sexy.. Sex is a mutual relation.. You enjoy only when your partner enjoys.. I just love when she gets really excited and push me deeper inside.. Just increase the sexual drive.. G'day... (read in full...)

Will sex hurt the first time for me because I'm uncircumcised?

Q.   Okay so.. I am concerned about something and my question will be about sexuality... I will just say a couple things about myself: 17 years old, I have a 5.5 inch penis when hard and is uncircumcised. I am also a virgin, but many girls like me and ...

A.   3 January 2009: The skin does not necessarily go below the head when you have intercourse.. If at all it does, your penis is well lubricated with your pre cum and your partner's lubrication. So, it does not hurt.. It would obviously hurt if you try it normally ... (read in full...)

Do men experience a sore penis after or during sex?

Q.   Do guys experience a sore penis after a couple of sexual exercises as well? I've had that a couple of times before and my bf's thing would be fine but this time he told me his penis was sore when we had to continue sex! I was also feeling some pain, ...

A.   3 January 2009: The only reason i can guess from your post is that you might have not been completely wet.. There might have not been enough foreplay for you to completely lubricate yourself.. If both of you felt sore, it has to be you dryness.. Your vagina w... (read in full...)

Love at first sight - do you believe?

Q.   do you guys believe in love at first sight? ...

A.   3 January 2009: No.. It is actually Disrespect to the term LOVE.. You can get Attracted, obsessed, crushed at First sight but it takes a Lot of time to TRULY LOVE someone.. Love is far more than external beauty.. You obviously get attracted to the outer look o... (read in full...)

Spot pregnancy in 3rd day?

Q.   Dear readers! Is it possible to spot pregnancy in the first to third day? Yesterday i was close to being unfortunate as most doctors i could go to were still closed, the clinic was opened, so i went there. And was given two emergency birth control ...

A.   3 January 2009: There is "Only One" pill that needs to be taken... What's this about two more pills after twelve hours..? There is NOTHING of that sort in the Emergency Contraceptive Pill.. !! I Fear you have taken an Abortion Pill.. Plz clerify from the Person y... (read in full...)

He's upset because I took the morning after pill!

Q.   I took some emergency contraception pills yesterday after unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I told him that i need to take them and he sounded like he understood. Last night when i was talking to him again, he mentioned that he didn't really like ...

A.   3 January 2009: WHAT...? That's NONSENSE that he is talking.. !! How many times does he Masturbates..? Isn't that Killing Babies then..? ECP is not Aborting.. !! You are right.. !! Is he 14 years old or what..? He sounds Immature.. G'day... (read in full...)

Do men like virgins?

Q.   Do men like virgins?...

A.   3 January 2009: MEN LOVE VIRGINS... !! Trust me on that.. !! There is nothing like having sex with a virgin.. !! It's just Awesome.. !! She is Tight, confused and lets you do everything you want.. !! G'day... (read in full...)

Does watching lesbian porn means I'm lesbian? I've never been attracted to girls!

Q.   Dear ppl, Lately I've been thinking about my sexual orientation. I used to watch porn and I stopped because I hated it and I felt disgusted every time I do it. I watched lesbian porn and I felt sth during watching it but I HATED it afterwards and I...

A.   3 January 2009: You're not Gay girl.. !! Even i used to watch Lesbian Porn, and i am a Man.. !! We love watching them but it does not mean we are GAY.. !! It's who we are attracted to in REAL LIFe.. !! You Straight and I am happy to announce that coz i hate ... (read in full...)

I can't find that special person and won't waste a kiss on someone else, am I normal?

Q.   I have been told I'm romantic and an amazing catch,but no girls ever take interest in me. I'm 5'8 and weight around 160 pounds.I'm not interested in random hookups to which I've been called gay because of it. I want my first kiss as well as ev...

A.   3 January 2009: Buddy.. !! You're THE BEST.. !! Trust me on that.. There are very few people like you and i SALUTE you for what you've said.. !! I had my First Kiss when i was 19 Dude.. I am just like you.. I wanted to save my first Kiss for a girl I TRULY L... (read in full...)

Do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination?

Q.   My breasts are so small, do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination? Once a boyfriend said to me when I was getting dressed "Come on turn round ...

A.   3 January 2009: I'd take small breast over huge breast anyday.. Breasts are always a turn on.. Small, big, huge.. They are just treasure.. G'day... (read in full...)

Will sex hurt the first time for me because I'm uncircumcised?

Q.   Okay so.. I am concerned about something and my question will be about sexuality... I will just say a couple things about myself: 17 years old, I have a 5.5 inch penis when hard and is uncircumcised. I am also a virgin, but many girls like me and ...

A.   3 January 2009: It does hurt a little, but not much.. Actually you wouldn't even realize in the heat of the moment.. I'm uncut and it is ACTUALLY AN ADDED ADVANTAGE.. Uncut guys penis head is much more sensitive to touch.. Hence, we feel much more.. You'll ... (read in full...)

Question for guys

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. I would be lying if I said I wasn't in love with him. I get scared cause I think he will leave me all the time. I want to talk to him about my fears, but guys hate girl stuff and emotion and ...

A.   3 January 2009: Who told you that guys have emotional talk.? If i guy loves you truly he would himself be emotional all the time.. You should not hide your feelings girl.. That is called COMPROMISE.. And TRUE LOVE DOES NOT DEMAND A COMPROMISE.. You're misinf... (read in full...)

Are we moving way too fast here?

Q.   I lost my virginity with my boyfriend and I feel terrible. We hadn't even been going out for a two months. And I'd given him head like less than 5 days after our first kiss. I told one of my closest friends and all of my friends are like virgins and ...

A.   3 January 2009: Yupp.. You moved 3 years faster.. You should indulge in oral sex after about an year of knowing each other.. And have sex after you're probably 18. You're moving too fast for comfort.. You might just have to face problems in near future.. I ... (read in full...)

Can you get pregnant while on your period or like within three days after???

Q.   Can you get pregnant while on your period or like within three days after???...

A.   3 January 2009: From a Personal point of view - No, you cannot.. I have never seen anybody get pregnant while having sex on her period or soon after or before period.. From a wider angle - Yes, i have read and a lot of people say that you can.. So, Yes you c... (read in full...)

Does she want to be friends with benefits?

Q.   Me and this very close female friend go to different uni's. I went to meet her and was staying the night. There's only one room and was only one bed. I wondered where I would sleep. Later on she said that we can both sleep on the bed, she doesn't ...

A.   3 January 2009: Well, The way she is reacting, i can't help but think that she is obviously seducing you into having sex.. No matter how close friends you become, nobody reveals her breast.. Stop having Respect for this girl.. She does not deserve it. ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and really want a baby, I'm just nervous about the pregnancy part.

Q.   Hey, im 14 and my boyfriend is 15. We both are really ready for a baby and actually have been wanting one ever since summer of 2008. I know for fact i am ready for the taking care part of it, but not so sure about the pregnancy part. I love kids and ...

A.   3 January 2009: You say if she wants one.. It's her choice.. That would give her the signal she should not be getting.. Having a baby at 14 cannot be classified as having fun in teenage.. Teenage love stories often turn into adulthood grief stories.. I am no... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and really want a baby, I'm just nervous about the pregnancy part.

Q.   Hey, im 14 and my boyfriend is 15. We both are really ready for a baby and actually have been wanting one ever since summer of 2008. I know for fact i am ready for the taking care part of it, but not so sure about the pregnancy part. I love kids and ...

A.   2 January 2009: To x-kitycatlok-x, Do you realize you are the "only one" asking her to go on with it if she wants...? I repeat she is "not good enough" to have a baby.. !! "Physically" and "mentally" ..!! I don't say it.. Your Government says it. Science... (read in full...)

Why can't he say "I love you" after 4 years of crazy sex?!

Q.   Can a man who shows every signs of loving a woman not be able to say "I love you" even after 4 years of crazy sex? I always thought that I could recognize love. I know that many women mistake lust for love...but is it possible that a man may love ...

A.   2 January 2009: To the Last anonymous Poster... In your case you wouldn't be having sex with that girl for Four years.. !! They are having sex for close to 4 years. Sex is the Farthest point.. !! If a guy is Comfortable to have sex with you then he surely a... (read in full...)

Wife cheated while wearing her wedding dress

Q.   My wife cheated on me. The guy she did it with wanted her to wear her wedding dress while she sucked him off and while he fucked her. She did this for him, and let him cum all over her dress. I'm not sure what i should be feeling here, but its not ...

A.   2 January 2009: What you are feeling is NOT Anger.. !! It's called the feeling of Disgust.. !! You're simply disgusted by this act of your wife.. !! You've got every right to be upset. She definitely has no respect for you or your marriage.. !! All i can do is Sy... (read in full...)

Wife cheated while wearing her wedding dress

Q.   My wife cheated on me. The guy she did it with wanted her to wear her wedding dress while she sucked him off and while he fucked her. She did this for him, and let him cum all over her dress. I'm not sure what i should be feeling here, but its not ...

A.   2 January 2009: My "first question" is, HOW DO YOU KNOW IT..? Throw Light.. !! G'day... (read in full...)

We agreed that the only way to stay together is to have a baby... should we do it??

Q.   ok ummm im 13 and my gf is 17 weve been together for nearly a year and i love her with all my heart ........do you think that its a big age diffrence for us? also her parents hate me so much! i cant talk to her anymore kuz they caught us having ...

A.   2 January 2009: Your question in itself explains how immature you are... !! You knw anyone could get u arrested if u have a baby at this age...? Stop being selfish.. !! All you would do is spoil a baby's life.. A baby needs food, money etc etc.. ! Where will you... (read in full...)

Why can't he say "I love you" after 4 years of crazy sex?!

Q.   Can a man who shows every signs of loving a woman not be able to say "I love you" even after 4 years of crazy sex? I always thought that I could recognize love. I know that many women mistake lust for love...but is it possible that a man may love ...

A.   2 January 2009: Hey Crazykit , My Bad.. !! I should have said "Most Women" not "all women" .. !! Exceptions are always there.. !! But it is a widely known fact that Women are much more emotionally involved in Sex.. !! A guy at 16 can have sex with any girl wal... (read in full...)

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

Q.   Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

A.   2 January 2009: You know what gives rise to God and Religion..? Questions like - What's the energy that makes our Body, Brain and Heart work..? Why does a man die..? He has the same blood, breat, heart etc. Then why does he turn old and die..? What i... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and really want a baby, I'm just nervous about the pregnancy part.

Q.   Hey, im 14 and my boyfriend is 15. We both are really ready for a baby and actually have been wanting one ever since summer of 2008. I know for fact i am ready for the taking care part of it, but not so sure about the pregnancy part. I love kids and ...

A.   2 January 2009: A kid wants to have a kid.. How interesting.. You don't even know what responsibility is dear.. No matter how much mature you think you are, you're just not good enough to have a baby.. You might even die of pain while delivering a baby at ... (read in full...)

Am I overreacting? He slapped me.

Q.   My Best friend is a guy and we have been best friends for almost 4 and a half years. A year ago we were at work,and I said out loud how much money he had,even though nobody had heard me, he got mad and lightly slapped me across my face.I got so ...

A.   2 January 2009: You were both drunk and it is the fault of both of you.. Had this happened when you were sober, i would have said that you're right and should probably slap that guy.. But at the times you've mentioned when it happened.. It wasn't anybody'... (read in full...)

Will health insurance cover the costs of an abortion?

Q.   I'll just cut to the chase here because I need answers. Fast. I've (I'm almost 19 and a college freshman) been pretty stupid with my ex (whom is 18 and still in high school) lately: we had unprotected sex three times in the last month and I'm mainly ...

A.   2 January 2009: Insurance will cover an abortion in a case where you are ' Medically adviced ' to undergo an abortion.. Like if there is a risk of life involved in the pregnancy. If there are chances of a miscarriage.. If your womb is too weak to hold a pr... (read in full...)

My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?

Q.   On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...

A.   2 January 2009: Did he figure it out honey.?... (read in full...)

Why can't he say "I love you" after 4 years of crazy sex?!

Q.   Can a man who shows every signs of loving a woman not be able to say "I love you" even after 4 years of crazy sex? I always thought that I could recognize love. I know that many women mistake lust for love...but is it possible that a man may love ...

A.   2 January 2009: Actually "Girls" and "Boys" are completely different when it comes to sex..!! A guy can have sex with 5 grls and not Feel a thing for them. Girls get emotionally attached and start to have a feeling for the guy she has sex with.. !! So, the... (read in full...)

Does a spark when I kiss him mean we are meant to be together?

Q.   when i kss my boyfriend i always get a spark does that mean we were ment for each other ...

A.   2 January 2009: At your age, every Kiss will give a Spark.. !! It's your hormones, not your BF.. !! G'day... (read in full...)

Do guys like girls with small boobs that go braless?

Q.   Do guys like girls with small boobs and going braless ? Also is it trashy to do so ? I'm asking this question because i started dating a new guy and he is great but he always wants me to go braless and likes to see my hard nipples through ...

A.   2 January 2009: 36 B are "Small Boobs" ...? You sure ma'am...? Second, Nobody likes a girl without Bra.. !! They look Out of shape to say the least.. !! You BF is an exception and I don't think you need to do anything you feel uncomfortable with.. !! It's qu... (read in full...)

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

Q.   Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

A.   1 January 2009: Science cannot define an Emotion buddy.. !! Why do we cry..? Why do we laugh..? Science says we laugh because we are Happy.. But what makes us laugh..? Explain Laugh as an emotion.. !! Not what happens when we laugh, but why do we laugh... Get... (read in full...)

My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?

Q.   On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...

A.   1 January 2009: YES, Guys can tell you're a virgin or not.. But only after you've told them that before.. THERE IS NO WAY ON EARTH that anyone can tell if a girl is virgin or not.. !! Only your doctor can tell you're a Virgin by looking at your hymen. But then... (read in full...)

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

Q.   Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

A.   31 December 2008: To lilly.. Hey buddy.. You said you don't believe in God because if there is God then why do we have Rapes, murders, terrorism etc. Right.? But my friend if a person believes in God, he believes in Devil as well.. I've read that today's wor... (read in full...)

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

Q.   Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

A.   31 December 2008: To Metalman. Please don't get offended but please never say that you don't believe in GOD because you believe in science.. What is science.? Science cannot even define an emotion.. Can science define the human mind.? Can science define what's b... (read in full...)

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

Q.   Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

A.   31 December 2008: Well, I am a believer that "God helps those, who help themselves" and "Ask God's blessings for your work, but dont expect him to do it" .. !!! I believe in an Almighty Power that created us all.. !! I'll open a secret here.. I did not ... (read in full...)

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