Does age really matter?
Q. I am 16 and for the last few months have been spending a lot of time with a neighbour and family friend. He's an amazing mentor and we read philosophy and poetry together. I've never been as close to anyone and he's my best friend. I know he feels ...
A. 18 May 2008: Who is the custodian of your soul?
Do you live by other's standards or do you live by your own standards ?
Will you be unhappy if other's tell you that it is wrong?
If you can answer those questions , then you have the right answer to that... (read in full...)
Do you believe that it is possible for us to continue to work at the same place despite the mutual attraction?
Q. I've made a decision to NOT get involved with a man who I am attracted to at work, and he's attracted to me as well. Do you believe that it is possible for us to continue to work at the same place and just remain co-workers? Do you think these ...
A. 18 May 2008: As long as you know your limits and boundaries and you don't cross the line,
you should let your friendship flourish.
You need friends at work and it defies logic if you just give each other the cold shoulder.
If you know you are still in th... (read in full...)
My wife wants to be painted nude. Is this normal?
Q. Hi my wife would like to have a nude painting done of her and is quite turned on by that fact that people will see it. is this normal or what...
A. 18 May 2008: Pornography or art ,normal or abnormal?
This depends on where you live and whether you are an ultra or a conservative.
If there is no peace between you two ,
then it is better to grant her that wish with certain conditions or whatever.... (read in full...)
Has any one ever had a fling, and regretted it as much as I do? And what did you do about it?
Q. hi all, please help me, i am so afraid that my husband will find out about a fling i had with a man a few months back. I love my husband with all my heart and am so upset, because i made a stupid, stupid mistake and i just cant forgive myself f...
A. 18 May 2008: Don't be too judgmental or harsh on yourself.
Learn to forgive yourself and let it go.
Confess your sins to God and He will forgive you.
To tell or not to tell him.
Every man is unique and you can never know how he reacts to the news... (read in full...)
Is it unusual to still be a virgin at 21?
Q. Hi, I'm just wondering if this is unusual to still be a virgin at 21. I am quite shy and haven't had yet any boyfriend or girlfriend whatsoever. I planned an appointment to the GYN since they say you should go once you reach the age of 21 but...
A. 18 May 2008: Lucky is the man who marries you .
You are pure and priceless!... (read in full...)
My friend likes a 30 year old... am I blind or is this not wrong?
Q. I'm 17 and my friend is 16. We met this guy through an online game, he's 30 years old. I was the one that introduced him to her, little did I no that it would ever result in some sort of gross relationship. First of all, my friend is the most ...
A. 18 May 2008:
Can a 16 year old girl be pretty level headed?
It will depend on which side of the divide you stand on.
I very much doubt it.
She is like the butterfly which has just emerged from her
cocoon and have new wings , ready to take off b... (read in full...)
How do you train a man to be more respectful towards women?
Q. How do you train a man to be more respectful towards women? My b/f of 3 yrs. blows hot and cold constantly. One minute he's all, 'ooh baby you're the best thing that ever happened to me...' and the next minute he's yelling at me over something ...
A. 17 May 2008: Men are like chameleons and they can change colours and into anything you want when they are chasing after you.
But once when they have captured their preys,
you will have to live with their true colours.
In love, everything is possible. ... (read in full...)
Am I a horrible person for having lied?
Q. Am I a horrible person for having lied? My ex broke up with me yesterday. It was because I came clean about some stuff after I had lied to him some other times before. It involved my past. I hid a lot of things about my past. According to mos...
A. 17 May 2008: The more fab the girl is , the more fab her history will be.LOL!
People used to say , the more beautiful and perfect a girl is , the more toxic she is.
The more fab a girl is , the more they will reject him because , he does not come anywher... (read in full...)
Am I a horrible person for having lied?
Q. Am I a horrible person for having lied? My ex broke up with me yesterday. It was because I came clean about some stuff after I had lied to him some other times before. It involved my past. I hid a lot of things about my past. According to mos...
A. 17 May 2008: In life, one can never be always truthful like God.
We are not God and we are imperfect.
If we keep only telling the truth ,
then we will not have many friends..LOL!
If I let you peek into my brain,
I am sure you will not agree w... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have a vibrator at 16?
Q. I'm sixteen and I'm a virgin. I plan to stay a virgin for a long time. I'm writing this because I have simple question to ask. My mother doesn't want me to talk to boys and I've told her that I wouldn't Now the dating/sex age for my family is ...
A. 17 May 2008: If you can think with a conscience,
then you are old enough to own one.
Right or wrong, only you can answer that.
If you think it is wrong and feel troubled,
then stop using it.... (read in full...)
What are the rules of cheating?
Q. i was just thinking... what are the "rules of cheating" or what would be considered cheating?...
A. 17 May 2008: One more silly reason I read in here,
5) Masturbating to porn or thinking of other sexy images of
other girls and not to the g/f 's picture or thought of her is cheating..LOL!
... (read in full...)
How do you train a man to be more respectful towards women?
Q. How do you train a man to be more respectful towards women? My b/f of 3 yrs. blows hot and cold constantly. One minute he's all, 'ooh baby you're the best thing that ever happened to me...' and the next minute he's yelling at me over something ...
A. 17 May 2008: Where can you find the perfect man or God like creatures ?
If men cannot be learners ,then many women may remain single
and never married unless they want to live in the caves .LOL!
Don't insult men.
Men don't come in your size and shap... (read in full...)
My friend likes a 30 year old... am I blind or is this not wrong?
Q. I'm 17 and my friend is 16. We met this guy through an online game, he's 30 years old. I was the one that introduced him to her, little did I no that it would ever result in some sort of gross relationship. First of all, my friend is the most ...
A. 17 May 2008: A recent news report from the Daily Mails.
Last month, Angela's youngest daughter,
16-year-old Lisa, ran away from home to be with Glyn's father,
Nigel, who, at 46, is precisely 30 years her senior.
Her daughter has ran away with him a... (read in full...)
My friend likes a 30 year old... am I blind or is this not wrong?
Q. I'm 17 and my friend is 16. We met this guy through an online game, he's 30 years old. I was the one that introduced him to her, little did I no that it would ever result in some sort of gross relationship. First of all, my friend is the most ...
A. 17 May 2008: Speak for yourself only.
Just because a few of your friends think alike ,
it does not mean that the national consensus about this issue is gross and wrong.
Even if there is a poll about this issue,
it is just a segment of the society... (read in full...)
WHY won't he just admit he cheated??
Q. ok this sounds crazy and i know its all in front of me but i keep doubting my own self.. about a month ago my gf tipped me off that my current bf of about 6months is "talking" to some girl her boyfriend knows and its still going on , but i didn'...
A. 17 May 2008: Retreat and let him do all the chasing.
Take a nonchalance stand and see how he reacts.
You will know how high you stand in his sight.
... (read in full...)
I gave my virginity to him. How should I take revenge on him?
Q. I'm single and fell in love with a married guy. He is 10 years older than me. His wife was pregnant and got a baby daughter on my b'day. I gave my virginity to him, but after he got his wife back in his bed. He started acting weird, like ignoring ...
A. 17 May 2008: The US is a litigation rich country .
You can sue him for losing your virginity and false misrepresentations.
If he is not rich, then you better forget about this action.
If you want to get over him quickly,
the fastest way is to tell Go... (read in full...)
What are the rules of cheating?
Q. i was just thinking... what are the "rules of cheating" or what would be considered cheating?...
A. 17 May 2008: I learned from Dear Cupid site that cheating is ;-
1) looking at porn or possession on phone or pc.
2)Flirting online or in real life.
3)Texting or SMS and talking on the phone to another person of the opposite sex.
4)Ogling at girl... (read in full...)
How do you train a man to be more respectful towards women?
Q. How do you train a man to be more respectful towards women? My b/f of 3 yrs. blows hot and cold constantly. One minute he's all, 'ooh baby you're the best thing that ever happened to me...' and the next minute he's yelling at me over something ...
A. 17 May 2008: Tell him your limits and boundaries .
If he loves you , he will respect you.
If he does not , then he is not worth your time and attention.
Use the carrot and the stick approach if you think he is teachable or can be trained.... (read in full...)
My friend likes a 30 year old... am I blind or is this not wrong?
Q. I'm 17 and my friend is 16. We met this guy through an online game, he's 30 years old. I was the one that introduced him to her, little did I no that it would ever result in some sort of gross relationship. First of all, my friend is the most ...
A. 17 May 2008: When a 16 year old girl falls in love with an older man ,
it is like a train without brakes.
Nothing you say or do will stop the train from going off
it's projected course until it loose steam by itself.
You may judge it to be wrong ... (read in full...)
Am I a horrible person for having lied?
Q. Am I a horrible person for having lied? My ex broke up with me yesterday. It was because I came clean about some stuff after I had lied to him some other times before. It involved my past. I hid a lot of things about my past. According to mos...
A. 17 May 2008: If he loves you, he would not mind if you tell 100 lies.
But if there is no more love, everything you do is a sin.
When there is love, everything is perfect.
He is not the one for you.
Move on .Close this chapter in your life.
You are... (read in full...)
My bf and his brother donated their sperm so their lesbian friends could have a baby. Can this happen without sex?
Q. My bf has 2 lesbian friends that are friend of the family well they wanted to have a baby so my bf and his brother donated there sperm to her but they put it in a cup and they waited a min or so and then she went and poured it into her can she still ...
A. 15 May 2008: As long as those sperms are inseminated into her,
there is a chance of conceptions.
But this process can make one liable for the child maintenance ,
when somewhere down the road , the mothers cannot support
their kids and will be forced... (read in full...)
My sisters don't like my boyfriend should I discuss it with them?
Q. When my family first met my boyfriend, they all thought he was funny and great, but after a while, my sisters started to dislike him. One of my sisters secretly told me that they all felt that he wasn't treating me good enough. I actually kind of ...
A. 15 May 2008: When you are in love, you see everything is perfect and without sin.
Those not in love may not agree with your perceptions.
They may have seen his faults and may expect too much from him or judge him too harshly.
When you are with him... (read in full...)
I quite often dream of my boyfriend cheating on me, and I wake up crying
Q. I think I'm being way too insecure, but I don't know how to handle it. It's not that I'm insecure about myself. I'm insecure about my relationship with my boyfriend. I quite often dream of my boyfriend cheating on me, and I wake up crying. When ...
A. 15 May 2008: You think too much about losing your b/f and you will often dream about it.
You should stop worrying about losing your b/f because , everything is fated .
We cannot see into the future and whatever it brings,
we have to accept it.
For fu... (read in full...)
I love him but have problems trusting him
Q. I have a boyfriend,we started dated 2 yrs ago,at first things were not that great,there was no trust, we loved each other but he still had his girlfriend and that ruined our relationship because sometimes she will call and i will get jelouse but i ...
A. 15 May 2008: If he is the one for you , everything would fall into place.
If you have those feelings, then he is not the right one.
Only time will tell.
... (read in full...)
How can we stop arguing over silly things when we love each other so much?
Q. I am coming up to a year now with the most wonderful guy and I have honestly never felt so in love or so loved before but sadly we seem to keep arguing over the silliest things and we have now both noticed it has been getting more frequent. I think ...
A. 15 May 2008: We are all unique and different.
We may not see alike even if the incident happens right infront of us.
We may see it from another perspective.
There is no point arguing about anything because it could
spread to the other departmen... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is insecure about me being smarter than him
Q. Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for over two years and I love him more than anything. I would consider him my best friend because I feel completely comfortable with him. I can tell him anything and know that my secrets are safe. We're very ...
A. 14 May 2008: He is suffering from inferiority complex , no confidence and low self esteemed.
You need to be more patient with him and give him more encouragements and understandings.
Tell him to work harder and push himself more.
He needs to increase ... (read in full...)
I Love someone I work with. Now she's moving away. Should I tell her how I feel?
Q. I'm quite confused on what to do at the moment. I realized a couple of weeks backs that I've actually fallen quite hard for someone I work with. We've spent a bit of time together both at work and outside of work. It seems like she has feelings ...
A. 14 May 2008: If she is leaving, it means that she has treated you like an ordinary colleague and nothing more.
If she had feelings for you , she would not want to leave.
It would be better for her to leave with some good memories
of your friendship an... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and getting married, but now I'm not sure he loves me
Q. I am pregnent and is about to get married. I am in love but i dont think he loves me back. he tells me he loves me but he doesnt show it. he breaks all his promis he doesnt call to check up on me. i barily see him. he always say hes busy farming. ...
A. 14 May 2008: Most men are simple minded.
They speak with candour and the truth but it does not come
across to the female because their love language is
different from a female and they are not aware of it.
If they say , they love you , it means t... (read in full...)
Part of me loves him and part of me doesn't. Am I just wasting my time?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for sixth months now and at the start it was great, we went out and had fun and I really enjoyed being with him. Completely thought 'this is great, I'm falling in love' and unfortunately that's not the ...
A. 14 May 2008: Relationship is like a plant.
You need to water it and nurture it.
If you don't nurture it , it will wilt and die.
The problem is whether this plant is important in your life?
If it is not important anymore to you,
you can simp... (read in full...)
Can anyone offer any advice on how to cope with a difficult break up?
Q. I dont know whats going on with me. Ii hate and love my bf all at the same time so I have decided to leave him for us both. But what happens when they're not there anymore? After coming out of a 2 year relationship in which we are and were very ...
A. 14 May 2008: You can either reconnect back with your old world or enter a
new world and taste the fresh surroundings.
Rediscover yourself and open your heart to accept new things.
In time , you will forget your problems.... (read in full...)
Should I go back with my fiancé or should I move on?
Q. My Fiance and I recently seperated. (April 10th) We had been dating for 6 years. We were engaged. We were living together. We were bestfriends. We were soulmates. Planning to spend the rest of our lives together. We both had wedding bands. I wor...
A. 14 May 2008: If your fiance cannot be independent and cannot think for himself,
I don't think you should go back for him.
He is just like a child and cannot make decisions for himself.
If he is strong and have leadership qualities,
he should... (read in full...)
Is it possible she could lose interest so suddenly?
Q. im so confused. theres this girl ive met who i really like. ive met up with her a couple of times at the weekend when we'v both been out in town. she says she would like to go on a date but ive asked about three times and theres always been an excus...
A. 14 May 2008: Keep knocking on her door till you know that she is not interested anymore.
Be persistent, for faint hearts cannot win any fair maidens.... (read in full...)
My fiancé left and it's affecting my health. I need to know everything.
Q. I'm 34 year's old and my fiance just left me just under 2 weeks ago. I've never been dumped and I'm not dealing with this very well. I've lost alot of weight and I don't leave the house. I really feel he left me because he got involved with someone ...
A. 14 May 2008: When you love someone with all your heart,
you need to let them go and find their own happiness.
You cannot possess them and bound them to you.
Learn to let them go.
You want them to better themself and enjoy what they do.
This site... (read in full...)
I'm scared of failing to please him. Giving him oral isn't working.
Q. I have recently hooked up with a new partner. After a certain amount of guidance from me he can give me fantastic oral. I have been told many times previously that my blow jobs were the best ever but I don't seem to have what it takes any more. Last ...
A. 14 May 2008: Each person is different and you need to ask him for his guidance.
Could be that he is not that sensitive or have ED problems?... (read in full...)
Why isn't she getting pregnant? We keep trying...
Q. me and my partner have been having unprotected sex for 18months now! she is 19 and im 22.it may seem young but we are financially stable and want a baby! but she dont seem to get pregnant! is there a problem with either of us?...
A. 14 May 2008: You could Google this question to find out the probable causes
but you need to go for a complete check up to determine the real cause.
14 to 16 days after her first day of period is the most fertile period.
Try using a pillow to lift u... (read in full...)
I'm taking care of everyone and no one is taking care of me
Q. This is kind of hard to explain so I'll just start at the beginning. My friend is seven months pregnant and throughout her pregnancy I have been taking care of her. I walk her to class, carry her books, talk to her when she feels down, tell her that ...
A. 14 May 2008: I hope God hears your cries.
Keep doing the right things ,
for you will reap abundantly what you have sowed.
Keep some time for yourself .
Be patient for God will surely repay your kindness many fold.... (read in full...)
My long distance partner is confusing me!
Q. Hi all! I have posted a question here a few months ago about my long distance relationship. It has gotten better, still no flowers, but he calls a couple of times per week, we txt each other frequently as well as email. He is comming over again - ...
A. 14 May 2008: He is just ranting and don't read too much into that.
He won't remember what he said the next day.... (read in full...)
She is pregnant and has a fiance but I am so in love with her! Any advice?
Q. I am so in love with this pregnant girl im 18 and the girl i have fallen in love with is 19. She was in the year above until she left n i am now in my last sixth form year. She is 6-7 month pregnant and has a fiance. Everyone talks of her n ...
A. 14 May 2008: I suggest you talk to her friends and find out the truth.
They may have some inklings about what happened to her.
Or find the opportunity to get close to her and dig abit.... (read in full...)
Are my friends right in saying we don't have history because we weren't "boyfriend and girlfriend"?
Q. OK so I've been talking to this guy for half a year now...but we no longer talk. But my friends say that we dont have wehistory because we were not boyfriend and girlfriend. How do they expect me to accept this. This guy has played a big part in my ...
A. 14 May 2008: It is just a play on words only and what happened is a fact which you cannot deny.
History or not , no one can change the facts.
... (read in full...)
Am I just allowing him to play with my heart?
Q. So m hubby and I had a misunderstanding. Few days ago--He said he would get online to talk to me, and I waited most of the night online for him but never showed up. I never got an email until the next day saying that "the internet was down, and his ...
A. 14 May 2008: When your gut feelings tell you that enough is enough ,
then you swing into actions.
Don't just sit there till the birds built their nest on your head .
Trashed it out with him and tell him what you expects from him.
He could be conf... (read in full...)
Should I get involved with him?
Q. kay so this boy has just recently started talking to me. he seems really cool and stuff and i'm really starting to like him. yesterday, he kinda asked me out and i said yes and then he kissed me. i guess we go out now but i'm not really sure. he ...
A. 14 May 2008: Use your own eyes to see and your ears to listen.
Judge him not by other's words but by his actions towards you.
Do not listen to rumours.
For all we know , it may not be true.
Give him the benefits of doubts till your intuition tells... (read in full...)
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