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Pregnancy: Help and advice

Hey guys, I don't want to get my hopes up but... could I be pregnant at last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 20 years old and officially late for my period.. I was due on saturday, and am usually very regular. Me and my fiance have been trying for a baby but it hasn't happened in 6 months of trying. I was beginning to assume that he had something wrong ...

I( want a baby but my boyfriend wants to wait

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hey,im 17 iv been with my boyfriend for a year now and we live together and everything, its going great ...but for years iv wanted a baby..but dont no if i should try for one ..i want to but he wants to wait a while..he doesnt understand everything ...

I am worried I may have miscarried

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - OK, so heres my thing, I am/was a few weeks pregnant. The thing is, today when I went to the RR I had some very thick, stringy discharge that was clear, very stretchy, it didnt break at all. And it had a little blood in it. I'm worried I may have ...

I need my mind to be put at rest as I'm really worried...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi. im a bit confused... i started bleeding really lightly it started off brown and ended a pink colour, the bleeding only lasted for 2-3 days on/off...im confused because it was ten days early as well, i usually bleed heavily and it lasts for 5-6 ...

14 and want a baby...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Im 14 and i really want a baby. i know this sounds stupid at my age but its all i think about. i havent had a good education at school so far but i think if i have a baby it will be great. just somebody to love to be there for to give it a cuddle ...

Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he ...

My husbands wants to reverse his "op"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - the bloke iv been with for the past 8 years was forced into having a vasectomy from his ex of 10 years,it was a case of if he didnt have it done then she told him she would end the relationship,when he did have it done she still ended the the ...

I am fourteen and afraid that I'm pregnant. Who do I talk to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Okay so Im 14 and Very Very Veryyyyyyyyy scared! I think i might be pregnant... Ummm....Ive missed my first period but theres no way for me to be able to get a preg. test. Im soooo Scared. I cant tell anyone because None of my friends would neve...

What to do about his bad boy behaviour...im having his baby...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend/father of my unborn baby is a big pothead. I get so mad because he constantly smokes around me. He stays drunk Thursday - Monday. He has no job but is in college 2 days a week. When he is by himself he doesn't smoke weed as much as when ...

A few pregnacy questions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - So I have some questions about being pregnant, about the first trimester actually. Forgive me if it's TMI, but these are a few things I would really like to know from people with experience, not just another doctor brushing it off as anything. :) ...

No period since taking the morning after pill!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I took the morning after pill ( levonelle ) and now my period is 6 weeks late. When i was 2 weeks late i went to the doctors for a urine test and it came back negative. Could this test be wrong or can the morning after pill make your period this ...

Urination pain discomfort during pregnancy..any advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have a question for everyone here about pregnancy. Has anyone here ever had pain in their abdomen while peeing or anything during early pregnancy? Like ithin the first trimester? Its like pressure/a littl pain around the pelvin area when I pee. ...

The baby was born 11 months after I was home, is the baby mine?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I have a question when i was home from Iraq last year 2008 the last time me and my wife had sex was april 4th 2008 when i cam back from iraq ahe told me she was preg and then on March 1st 2009 our son was born her due date was feb 26 2009 now is ...

I am pregnant and underweight, and need some dietary help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, and thanks for anyone that replies back to me :) I just had two quick questions. Well three months ago I found out I was pregnant so I started going to the Health Department here where I live for one of there programs. The last I went there was ...

First Christmas together, What do you get a boyfriend when your 5 months pregnant and lingerie doesn't fit the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been together for about 11 months now, we are planning on getting married in the next 2 years. On top of that I am 5 months pregnant with our first child. This Christmas will be our first together, and I have no idea what to ...

Hey!!! Is there still a chance I'm pregnant???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi my boyfriend and I have been trying for a baby for a while now. We had sex during my ovulation period and my period was 10 days late naturally I thought I was pregnant. My question is once your period comes does it for certain mean you are not ...

I'm ready to end relationship and pregnancy..help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I'm so hurt I think its time to end my relationship and not continue my pregnancy. Yesterday was my birthday my co-workers bought me flowers and took me to lunch. My boyfriend did nothing for me. When I got to his house from work he had already ...

I'm sure he didnt come in me, but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - i had my period on 11th november [mine is irregular] and had unprotected sex on 21st november am i likely to be pregnant? what im sure of is that he didnt come in me coz i pushed him away....

My period started the day after I had unprotected sex, do you think I could be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - First I must start out saying that My periods are always the same. They last 3-5 days, and are always a dark red, and very very thick (Kinda like mucus). I also must say that I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on the 22nd. I started my period ...

My pregnancy hormones our affecting our relationship and now he doesn't want to be around me!

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26 November 2009 (F) - Hi I am 18 weeks pregnant and know that my mood goes up and down. last week i acted prety damn shameful towards my partner.i was just moody and snapped at him a bit. i felt really really bad, i apolgised and tried my best to make it up to him. th...

Unprotected sex... now I'm worried I may be pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hi im 17 and have a boyfriend i have been having unprotected sex with. thing is i wasnt meant to be due on my period until the 6th december but i come on today which is a week and a half early, this keeps happening, its happend about 3 times now, i ...

Why aren't you girls sexually protecting yourselves?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - This isn't directed to any asker in particular, but I am becoming increasingly concerned, and unfortantely, though I try to withold judgment, I do experience anger, in both my personal life and with askers on the site, who are both aware of ...

Having unprotected sex, could I be pregnant? I know I've been stupid, so no lectures please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for eight months and we have been having unprotected sex (dont lecture me) i know i have been so stupid, i should no better as i use to be a really safe girl and would never sleep with a boy without a condom. we dont ...

Could I get lead poisoning from drinking from that can?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - i'm 5 months pregnant and this morning i opened a can of juice after the first drink i realized it tasted weird and through it out. now im worried about lead poisoning and im also waiting 4 my obgyn 2 call back. any helpful and comforting advice ...

Can you become pregnant just from foreplay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend touched my private parts for 5 minutes without touching his. Are there any chances of me getting pregnant because of this?...

How much do fertility treatments cost?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have a baby for about a year now and i don't seem to be getting pregnant.Is there something I should be taking or doing..?? Does anyone know how much it cost to have his sperm put inside me for a better chance ...

Pregnant and feeling rejected!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hi I am 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20 we have been together for 2 years although we broke up for 10 months and got back together in june not long after we got back together i found out i was pregnant. 5 months have past and everthing seemed...

Could "spotting" mean pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday, and it was the first time in about 6 months. I have went a year without sex before and this has never happened to me! I started spotting today, just barely. I am kinda worried. I think that ...

Was this my period or do I still need to take a pregnancy test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - is it possible for me to be pregnant? i had unprotected sex(yes i know, its my bad so no lectures or rants please) a week ago yesterday, last sunday, the 15th november, took immediate action by going to the local minor injuries unit to get the ...

He made me have an abortion - should I forgive him or move on with my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - he made me make an abortion and he keeps on telling me dat he love me,i do really love him but im not sure if he really love me after what he has dan to me. i dont know if i should give him another chance,is de any guy dat wil drove his girl to ...

We're trying to have a baby. How reliable are home tests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hi i need some advice. My boyfriend and I are trying for a baby. We had unproctected sex on the 7th 8th and 9th of november. My period was due ab 5 days ago. I have taken a test today and it was negative, however i was wondering is there still a ...

Is this my period or implantation bleeding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hello I had sex with his guy I know ..I made him use a condom ... He continued to keep it on even tho he had came in it??? But, after a whle I made him put on a new one. Also, when he was puttin it on, he put it on he wrong way so he then would...

Calming advice needed about pregnancy scare

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - help! i was stupid enough to have unprotected sex and im worried about my gf. it was our first time, and we mainly just tried getting in comfortably etc no full on fucking. hence i didnt come close to cumming, and i wasnt in her for more than 10 ...

How long can sperm be active outside of body? Can I get pregnant if he doesn't cum inside me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - okay so me and my boyfriend have sex, and i was just wondering is it possible to get pregnant even if he doesnt cum directly inside of me? how long can sperm be active outside the body???? ...

My ex wanted me to have an abortion, but now he wants visitation rights

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Im 18 years old and i have a 3 month old little boy with my ex whose 22. He wants to have some sort of visitation rights but i dont want him to. Since when i found out i was pregnant at 17 he left me for another girl and told me to have an abortion. ...

I want a baby and I don't care what my bf thinks! Is this bad to think this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - is this a bad way of thinking? if i want a baby i dont care what he [my boyfriend of six months] thinks if he wants to be around then he can if not then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it...

If I ever have a baby, I really don't care if the father hangs around! Is this bad way to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Is this a bad way of thinking? If i want a baby I dont care what the baby's father thinks. If he wants to be around then he can, if not, then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it alot ...

I can't stop thinking about having a baby, but I know I'm not ready.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I'm always thinking, "What if I get pregnant?" and my answer in my head is, no matter what i'd keep the baby since me and my boyfriend both talk about it all the time, we cant wait until we're older to have kids. i never had a good mother, she was ...

Does my aunt's dream mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - My aunt dreamt that i was pregnant, but i don't have any signs except my stomach growing (which it always does when i'm gaining weight). I still have my periods. Wat worries me is dat even my colleagues think i'm pregnant. I'm not ready to have a ...

Has anyone lost weight while pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - hiya well im 19 weeks pregnant with my first baby and am really confused. im getting a nice round bump but other than that have lost nearly 2 stone since i became pregnant and am worried that it could hurt my baby if i carry on losing weight ...

Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a ...

Oh my god!!! Could I possibly be pregnant???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - hey, i have a question. im currently on bc, and i got my period last weds. but yesterday, when i was sitting under the dryer at the hair salon, i started feeling really sick, and ended up throwin up. then i drank some water and threw that up too. ...

Ladies! What were your pregnancy symptoms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Alright, so I've been sick on and off for the past 3 weeks and haven't thought much about it until someone asked if I could be pregnant. I'm 20 years old and have never been pregnant or even had a scare so I have no idea. I've had extreme nausea on ...

Help me prepare... in case I'm pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Please help! I'm worried I'm pregnant... Me and my boyfriend have never used a condom but I'm on the pill. We both got tested before we slept together. But I'm a bit forgetful and miss a few pills from time to time. But me and my boyfriend have ...

I missed a few pills, unprotected sex, and now I'm worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - this a bit of a hard and weird question to be asking but i am a bit worried, i am on the contraceptive pill and obviously i have missed a few pills in the month that i am now in and on the 16th nov a few days ago i had unprotected sexual ...

I haven't been myself lately and I am worried I am pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year he is 24, we are in love and are very close. there have been a few times over the past few weeks that the condom split...i put it to the back of my mind and told myself i'll be okay. ...

My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

Ovulation, Pregnancy, The ex-factor. Help!

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, so I have some questions. See me and my ex-boyfriend had unprotected sex (he has a girlfriend) and Im like bugging out I may get pregnant. See I already have a two year old with someone else and this is the same exact time of month I ...

Is this normal? Am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have missed my period for five monts and I have had backaches and headaches, my breasts have been itching a lot lately and all I do is eat. I mean I always ate a lot but now I just can't control it. Can anyone help me out here? Am I pregnant? I ...