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writes:I'm a guy. Would posing nude for my girl friend bring us closer? I want to pose nude for my girlfriend of a year. We aren't very intimate now, as we were, and I want to bring back our regular intimacy. Would this make her want to be with me more? What do I do?Would the age of my girl friend be relevant to this question? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): Am...no dude, just no. Unless your a hulking adonis with a crazy ripped physique then posing for her is going to do nothing because women aren't really impressed by that kind of thing. We are because we're visual creatures, seeing a naked woman in front of us posing is exciting. It's not as exciting for women on the most part.
Reigniting romance is way better for intimacy. Emotional arousal works best for intimacy, making them feel sexy works better, women are far more aroused by how they feel rather than what they see. Make her feel loved, desired and sexy as hell and she'll respond. Time to go back to the time when you first started dating and did lots of things to make her feel that way so she'd respond.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 June 2011):
 I can't see how posing nude for anyone in a relationship would make it better or bring you closer.
do you guys live together?
i need more details.
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reader, Abella +, writes (1 June 2011):
 If you really want any girl to get closer to you then listen to them withou judgement. Listen very intently, girls reveal so much, not just in words, but how they walk, behave, their facial expressions.
Listening to what is important to them. Never saying cruel things. Make them feel special by giving them your undivided attention when you are with them really helps. Notice when their hair smells lovey, when they have made an extra effort. Notice them for just the way they smile.
I don't mean smother the girl.
But attentive good listening, with empathy and a considerate attitude will trump a nude picture any day.
Woman respond well to good positive feelings generated when you demonstrate that you care.
Women know that your actions are more important than your words alone. Talk is cheap.
Men respond quickly to visuals.
Posing nude, even if you are a complete Adonis, may turn your girl friend away. It is not a good idea.
Be patient, considerate of her feelings.
And listen to what she says.
If you do not want to listen to what she says then you are with the wrong woman
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (1 June 2011):
 I don't think it's a good idea.
A better idea would be to take her out for a romantic meal and talk to her honestly about why your intimacy has stopped. Women prefer honest communication, if you suddenly bombard her with naked pics, I guarantee she will think you have gone mad and she will be off like a shot.
Talk to her.
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