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writes:i have been with my boyfriend going on 3years now, our sex life has always been good and we have watched porn a couple of times together before but it never realy crossed my mind about him watching it on his own until we had internet. We are together most of the time so he wouldnt realy get chance to do it, but one day or night i must of been away from him and i didnt see the history until a month or so later that he had been on porn. I did confront him and he denyed looking at it we are the only ones in the house and i know it was not me, in the end he said he just typed it in to see if it worked, i did get a bit upset and said you would rather have a wank to other girls why i am out then wait for me to get back, he tried to say doesnt mean *masturbate* when watch porn which i find hard to believe i doubt he would just watch!he just said he is a male, thats what they do. he cant watch it alot because i am always around, but i think he watched it the other morning to when i went to a corse and tried to cover the history. I seem to be thinking of it alot and get realy paronoid even when half naked girls come on the tv i think he is looking at them so i find it realy hard to watch films with him when it contains sex i look at him without him knowing and hes like pulling a funny expression like hes hiding a different expression i dont know how to explain this. I feel paronoid.please help x
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 It is sometimes the ONLY option...when there is no responsive partner then self gratification is definetly better than trying to arouse the spouse[she is NEVER 'in the mood'0 a my own body is always in the mood.
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reader, VictoriaK  +, writes (3 July 2010):
 Okay, first off it was wrong for him to lie to you about watching porn, but that aside, porn is actually a good tool in my opinion. I think of it like this :Would I rather my husband watch porn and masturbate, or talk to other girls?: Sounds extreme, but guys look at porn all the time. I'd say tell him that it makes you a bit uncomfortable that he watches porn, but keep in mind that it's perfectly natural, and human. The only time it would be a problem is when he isn't having sex with you, and only watches porn. Other than that, I'd say just relax :)
Good Luck,
Victoria K
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): One - try using a period here and there, it will make your question slightly legible.
Two - Yes
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reader, RyanS +, writes (3 July 2010):
 Hi, please see my reply to this question. It will help you.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/another-porn-question.html
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