New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244973 questions, 1084332 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Worried about this girl and my boyfriend... am I right to be worried?

Tagged as: Friends, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (29 May 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *attie90 writes:

hi everyone ok now i might just b goin crazy or im reacting the way i should! my boyfriend is going out 2nite 2 watch hockey with a bunch of his friends he couldnt find a ride(his car is crap) so he resulted in calling one of my friends well actually me n her dont talk as often as we did b4 but he called her asking her for a ride n shes really big whore has tried sleeping with my boyfriend on many occasions and she just started texting him a couple of weeks ago saying we need 2 hang out n party well when she gets drunk shes turns into super mega horny n wants 2 f*** everythng in site so what im worried abt is her trying 2 get with him again now shes just taking him 2 his friends but how do i know tht shes not tht attractive we have a nickname for her its 5 oclock bc it looks like she has a 5 oclock shadow on her face he tells me that nothing will happen ok i kno he wont but her idk what the hell should i think abt ths cuz im worried shes guna do sumthng thtll make me want 2 beat her ass wht should i think

View related questions: drunk, horny, text

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2008):

well the first thing you need to ask yourself is why would he ask the one girl who tried sleeping with him he should know comon sense should tell him that you dont ask for a rside with someone who tried to sleep with you if he wasnt doing anything he would say " hey my girlfriend probably would be a lil uncomfterable with me going with her" but he oviously didnt he could have called one of his buddies they were going to the same destinantion!!!! and if she was going with them to that is suspicious within itself i think yo should watch him and find out for yourself what he is doin with a girl who wants to do him!!!!!

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

Never ever hit anyone, it will just result in mega trouble, and anyway, no one is worth it. We all cannot stop who we are with going with someone else, that is a fact of life. I would ask him to try and get a lift off someone else, but if all else fails and he has to have a lift off her, then you are going to have to trust him. On the night of the lift, go out, go to a friends but dont sit around the house and mope, it will brew a very bad situation in your head and you will be ready to hit someone, dont do it. Instead have some faith and trust in him.

take care xx

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (29 May 2008):

PeterPan agony auntFirst I would say don't get yourself all worked up about something that might happen or not at all. I suppose what I'm saying is you need to put some faith into your boyfriend to not do anything with her even if she tempts him with her best A-game. And actually, this works to your advantage. If he can keep her away without you around, then she'll figure out that no matter what she tries, she can't get your boyfriend.

So, the best advice is to remain calm (focus on something else) and wait for the boyfriend to tell you what happened. Above all, resist the urge to attack her. It's called Assault & Battery and it will get you into trouble fast! Nobody needs a police record!

Hang in there, OK?

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

I know you are angry but beating her up will not solve anything. You should be mad at both of them thats normal but don't forget your boyfriend called her and honey men don't care what girls look like as long as they give out. They just keep it on the down low. Thats my guess why she is so popular. Believe me they are only popular untill everybodies had them. You should dump your boyfriend he sounds a little suspect to me. Why of all people would he call her? Do you drive? as for the girl just stop talking to her she is not a good friend. In relationships you have to trust each other you can not control what the other person dose. If they are going to cheat they are going to cheat and thier is nothing you can do about it but to end they relationship when you find out. Don't waste your time beating her up or playing the revenge card. The best revenge is just to be as happy as can be and act like you could care less. I hope I was able to help, good luck in life

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Worried about this girl and my boyfriend... am I right to be worried?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.031214300001011!