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writes:I just discovered that my boyfriend has collected photos of womens breasts sent to him by email. He met these women online and made the requests personally. I also viewed some messages that he printed and kept, telling a few of the women that he had a specific fetish for large breasts and that he would like to fuck their breasts. I had never heard of "breast fucking", and would like to know why a man would get exited about it and if they have orgasms during this sex act.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): If you dont like it then have a chat with him and tell him, no one has to put up with something that they dont like. I cannot even say that it is a male thing because my hubby doesnt do this, thank goodness, cos i wouldnt be very pleased if he did. Tell him that you find it totally disrespectful to you and you want him to stop. If he doesnt then you have to decide if you can live with it, if not then get rid.
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reader, JTalbott +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Most men use porn to fuel a sexual fantasy, not a create a relationship. So although it may take sexual energy out of a relationship, in moderation erotica is not the end of the world.
However, as with all things, it's a matter of balance; spending hours and hours seeking naked pictures from real women doesn't sound like a balanced or healthy way to live a life.
For his sake, you might suggest he focus his energies on behaviors that strengthens his relationship with a real person, namely you.
However, the desire to change and make a better use of his life has to be his. The part you control is who you chose to share your life with.
In my case, joining a meditation group was very helpful in replacing the angst that drove many of my sexually compulsive behaviors.
Good luck.
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reader, bday121 +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Um, yeah. I agree he's probably seen a bit too much porn. You need to talk to your guy about this, because what he's doing is obviously making you upset. Your relationship cannot be healthy if he's not taking into consideration your emotional needs. If you bf can't control his "fetish" and his wandering eyes, then he needs to go. If I caught MY boyfriend doing that, I would consider it cheating and he'd be kicked to the curb.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): Sounds to me like your man has been brainwashed by porn. Porn is bad. I had a friend who once believed that women loved to get anal and then sprayed with sperm in the face afterwards because of all the porn he watched in his teens. He needs to go to a therapist. He needs a reality check about your relationship and what is appropriate behavior. Just because he has fantasies does not mean he should let them run wild in his mind. He can control this problem. By the way, it definitely is a problem since it ruins your relationship and trust. Go to a therapist. Work it out.
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reader, Lily Moll +, writes (29 May 2008):
Or boyfriend, rather.
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reader, Lily Moll +, writes (29 May 2008):
Ask your husband about it. He will be happy to teach you.
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