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writes: would a female be detered by my penis? it is just under 6 inches erect but i cannot pull the foreskin back. i am afraid that i wont be able to have sex properly but i can still have good orgasms.
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reader, andy20 +, writes (1 June 2006):
Thats some very useful feedback from wendy there. Yep, It could very well be a short frenulum breve. I have to point out that my frenulum was also short in my early years (pre teen) but it seemed to get longer over the years through puberty, so Im not sure if this will be the case for every bloke. Mine is 100% completely normal now and functional with no discomfort at all and the foreskin is as loose as it should be. I really think this was down to the stretching as I can vaguely remember how short my frenulum was and how tight my foreskin was, retracting only about 15% max. But exactly after the stretching processes I started to notice it alot looser and then 100% cured.
Also please note as Wendy said; There have been many cases where the frenulum may snap. Especially during intercourse so you must go easy. Gradual stretching may help you as it did me and many others but if in doubt definately consider your doctors interest.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (29 May 2006):
 Hi there I agree with what Andy20 has to say, although he is male and I may self wouldnt expereince it.. in any case, it could be that you have a short ferenulum, and some cases no amount of streching will fix it, as the skin that attaches the foreskin to the head is breakable! Go easy see what happens, but if you do still find you are having problems then see your doc, you really dont want it snapping, it might not come to that, but see how goes. As mentioned there is an op that can be done and it doesnt have to be circumscision, they can extend the ferenulum, and its more common than some might think. Its better to get this sorted out sooner rather than later. But take it easy dont go forcing it, and if you do have sexaul intercourse and its too tight or hurts stop as you dont want to cause yourself any damage. Use lots of lube see how it feels, and see if it gradally does pull back easily see how goes and hopefully you will be fine, but do be careful just in case.
Take care
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reader, andy20 +, writes (29 May 2006):
Hi mate, I sympathise with your problem with your non retractable foreskin as I had the same problem as you. I learned that It is quite a rare problem and the most common form of treatment is circumcision which made me feel even worse.
Like you I could still masturbate normally and came as normal as everyone else but pulling to hard made it sore at the end as im sure you know too well. I was also scared that i wouldnt be able to function properly in bed with a girl and that it would affect me as a man. I got seriously depressed over it and so i didnt have sex untill I was 18.
You are probably wondering why 18? The reason is because I ended it with an ex and then a few months before i turned 19 I met my first sexual partner. Just after I split up with my ex I started to notice my foreskin was coming alot looser and I could pull it back just a bit more say every month but never thought it would fully retract as a normal penis should untill one morning I woke up feeling extremely strange down below.
I looked in my boxers to find it had fully retracted when erected over night! I COULD NOT BELEIVE IT. I SWEAR TO GOD I FELT REBORN, ILL NEVER FORGET THAT DAY! Entirely through puberty I knew something wasnt right with it and that it never would be 'right' and then it hit me like a brick waking up to find it functioning normally!
Now for the answer on how i think this came about.Ill cover EVERYTHING. I have read up on everything there is to know on this topic and have learned that men who have a non retractable foreskin will undoubtetly have hygiene problems involving a build up of you know what under the foreskin if it cant be pulled back. One day I noticed that there was an itching pain under the foreskin and knew what the problem was. Now ive also read that if this isnt cleaned out properly there is a very strong risk of penile cancer. YEP! At this i was DETERMINED to do something about it so I invented my own way being able to dislodge the bad stuff.
What you have to do is stretch the foreskin, If you dont want to go under the knife that is or like me dont have the confidence to go to a doctor and have him tug at it. This is also the second most common way of treating your problem and is medically completely harmless. Dont forget our foreskin was designed to retract fully with ease. Ours was just tight! I noticed the full retraction a few weeks after doing the following steps..
What you have to do is get a tall glass of warm water and put a teaspoonful of salt into it and mix it well. The salt helps to release the foreskin where it is tightest.
Kneel above it and lower your penis into the glass (making it semi hard while doing this is an advantage). Gently pull the foreskin back untill it is to the max i.e where it becomes slightly uncomfortable. Hold it here for around 2-3 minutes keeping pressure on it then release it.
Do this everynight for a couple of weeks and you WILL notice it gets looser every other time! Untill eventually it will fully retract loosely like mine and stay that way! The day to day natural confidence boost you get is overwhelming.
You may find in the process an unhygenic matter known as smegma (a build up over your life!) but this is normal with guys with non retractable foreskins and will come away if you shake your penis in the water. This can be sickening on your first encounter but you will feel so releived when its rid of. Just remember this stuff causes cancer if it lies there long enough in large amounts.
Take care and good luck
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reader, bridget +, writes (28 May 2006):
 Hey there anon..
I think the only way you would know that is if you do it..
But dont be embarrassed about it, I have heard of alot worse..
Best Wishes
Jacqueline
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