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How Can I Have a Decent Long Term Relationship, Not Just a Sexual One?

Q.   So here is my first question IV only had one girl friend and a few lovers if u will nothing serious I'm a dickted to giving woman oral sex but haven't managed to keep one with me. I try to please them in every way I could think of but no luck in ...

A.   28 June 2010: Thanks for ur advice! But its really hard to find a older woman where I I'm that's the problem. And when I find one that I kinds like its all about sex or there's some big issues on her side like a bad ex she still love or so she thinks. Ok off the ... (read in full...)

My question is how do I tell my dad that I used to do this without him overreacting?

Q.   How do i tell my dad that i used to cut myself? Ok i know that its bad and that i shouldnt etc, and i havent for about 4months now. Its been extremely hard as it was at the stage where i was pretty much addicted to cutting myself. I still struggle ...

A.   24 June 2010: Go up to him and tell him u have some thing to show him. If he gets mad or starts to yell give him a few seconds. When cools down give him a hug by doing this u let him know u came to him for love and his help not to be yelled at. hope this is ... (read in full...)

Chatting with my boyfriend on msn and need some tips!

Q.   Okay. So I like to chat with my bf on facebook and stuff. There are times when I just want to talk to him, but I don't know the answers to the following questions. It kinda bugs me, and it hurts to be away from him, so I like to at least talk with ...

A.   24 June 2010: Depends on the situation is he a working all the time if is he is most likely to be tierd, try leavening a short sweet voice message Like love u baby or wish I was with u in ur arms. Some thing like that mabe once in the morning then in the ... (read in full...)

I'm just not sure about giving her the space she wants!

Q.   I'll try to make a long story short. Dated a girl in highschool (13 years ago), always missed her, looked for her throughout the years...no luck. I decide to move back to a city I've lived before and before the move we got back in touch-I finally ...

A.   23 June 2010: K so bro this what I think u should do to get u through this call/text some of ur Buddys and hang out. Try to avoid talking about ur girl because if u tell UT buddys hard feelings might be created against ur girl point is to for getting the issue ... (read in full...)

I'm just not sure about giving her the space she wants!

Q.   I'll try to make a long story short. Dated a girl in highschool (13 years ago), always missed her, looked for her throughout the years...no luck. I decide to move back to a city I've lived before and before the move we got back in touch-I finally ...

A.   22 June 2010: I think u should leave and get on ur feet befor u start talking to her again at least for a little while any way. If u start talking u will be really confused if she asks to go out again. Don't allow ur self to be hurt! ... (read in full...)

Will telling her I like her ruin our friendship?

Q.   So I met this amazing Muslim girl. I like her but she does not know it, maybe she knows because I have been very special to her. She will be moving away from my city without knowing what I feel for her. Is it recommended to tell her and not be ...

A.   19 June 2010: Hey bro go for it u would never know how or of she feels the same way about u if u don't tell her. U might regret it later of u don't tell her. Good luck... (read in full...)

Should I break up with him and find someone new?

Q.   Okay, I have a question just like most of us girls want to ask. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. He seems to me like he dont really care but heres the question. My boyfriend has lied to me about his ex a few times and has ...

A.   18 June 2010: Ok so with most woman I have encountered here where I Live have bad boy friends.now what they tell me is they live the guy to death but like u the guy treats his woman like shit. They say they can't trust the guy but they can't get over him. So I te... (read in full...)

Stuck in a love triangle, what should I do?

Q.   i have this huge crush on this guy im 14 hes 16 i practicly love him i jus met hiw this year and he keeps telling me he wants to hang i want to but idk if my parents will aprove and there is another isue he has a girl friend which he loves but is in ...

A.   18 June 2010: So I have mixed feelings about telling his girl friends. If I was in ur position I would keep it to my self only because of the fact that girls tend blow things out of portion fast. Now don't hate Cus I sed this.lol so for right now try to control ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is visiting dating and teen porn sites and its ruining our intimacy!

Q.   My bf does not think dating forums and porn has anything to do with me. I feel unsexy and not good enough. He cant stay of teenporn sites. I hate it it affects our sex life. He does not even try to satisfy me. He is using cipralex which makes it ...

A.   17 June 2010: U should forcefully tell him how u feel and how u r beening effected by what he is doing if u haven't already. Don't hang on to a bad relationship hoping to fix Cus then UT going to spend a good part of ur life being rejected by ur man. This is only ... (read in full...)

Stuck in a love triangle, what should I do?

Q.   i have this huge crush on this guy im 14 hes 16 i practicly love him i jus met hiw this year and he keeps telling me he wants to hang i want to but idk if my parents will aprove and there is another isue he has a girl friend which he loves but is in ...

A.   17 June 2010: U have to ask ur self would u want ur boy friend kissing another girl. if he truly likes u he would brake up with his girl first! He has to figure out his priorities or some one will be hurt! ... (read in full...)

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