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writes:I fell in love with this guy @ 20 years ago. We dated on and off for many of those years. He always told me that he loved me and cared about me. After a became fed up with the fact he would not commit I ended the relationship and got married to someone else. I have found that. My marriage has ended mostly because I am still in love with him. He is my soul mate. He tells me that he does not want anyone to know about us until my divorce is final. To me this is a sign that he is just trying to not commit again to our relationship. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): I suggest you have a very honest and open discussion with him; tell him how you feel; ask him how he sees the future for the two of you after your divorce?
Open and honest communication is always the best; then you will get a clear picture of what to expect and not walk around with worries or doubts.
Good LUCK!
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 You have spent a lot of time with him over the years; what are the reasons he has given you for not committing to you before?
He may be your soulmate but do you think he thinks you are his soulmate? I would think if he really wanted to be with you that he would have done so already.
Has he offered any real signs of wanting to commit this time?
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