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writes:I have a problem that I'm at a standstill over: I've known my wife for 10 yrs; we've been married for 3 yrs. and I have only seen her vagina twice. I've talked to her very lovingly several times, without any success of a normal sexual relationship with her. She will only have sex in the dark or under the covers. She has a nice body, it's just a problem she has. I love her dearly, though after 3 yrs, I've started noticing other women and have to fantasize about other women's vagina's during sex, or I can't ejaculate and I also have a difficult time obtaining an erection. I'd like to hear from women who may understand her as well as from men who may have been with women like her.Thanks
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (13 January 2010):
 get Clap on and while your about to do it and shes naked rip that covers off and clap, Your wife is wierd lol you need to take a peak down there and make sure its actually a vagina, wow, shes your wife you need to be a man tell her if she doesnt let you see you want a divorce and your gonna get it from some girl 20 yrs younger that will let you see everything you want, you will probably have to pay her but hell how mutch has a wife cost you over the years.
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reader, rebeccaxx  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 she's obviously very self conscious for some reason, i think you should talk to her about it, and see if there is some way you could come to some sort of agreement :) i agree with emilysanswers, 'how to look good naked', is brill, it's a great confidence booster. if you aren't in the uk, you could maybe watch it online. it most likely comes down to your wife being self conscious though x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 January 2010):
Emily Answers has a good bot of advice. Your wife is clearly very self concious, and needs a huge amount of reassurance and care.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (12 January 2010):
We have a whole TV series about this here in the UK called "How to look good Naked." If you can get hold of a copy online somewhere that'd probably help you understand.
It features lots of people just like your wife.
What she needs is a major injection of self confidence.
I suggest professional help at this stage. See if you can find someone to make her feel beautiful and make her see the her that you see.
Good Luck!! xx
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