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Can I change from being overbearing and jealous?

Q.   hi my boyfriend just told me i was overbearing sometimes. i try to not be, but apparently i still come off that way. i mean... i'm not a fan of weed. i'm not gonna be thrilled when he smokes (which is not that often) but if he wants to do it, he k...

A.   6 January 2009: thanks for your reply yeah, i know i'm still not all good. i am doing therapy but it's still hard to break those feelings away. i'm still oversensitive which is why i ask ppl what they think. i know that what i think right now is most probably not ... (read in full...)

I'm angry...she is being over friendly to this other guy! What do you think?

Q.   Hi. I've just had an argument with my ladyfriend over this guy in the office. Both she and I have worked at the same company for about 3 years . We started dating about a year ago - but kept the matter secret. I used to have an office right next to ...

A.   5 January 2009: oh wow. i feel you there. my boyfriend is very friendly and flirty too. that's the way he is. at first i was super jealous since every single girl he becomes friends with wanted to date him. some have even tried to kiss him. but he always turns them ... (read in full...)

Wife cheated while wearing her wedding dress

Q.   My wife cheated on me. The guy she did it with wanted her to wear her wedding dress while she sucked him off and while he fucked her. She did this for him, and let him cum all over her dress. I'm not sure what i should be feeling here, but its not ...

A.   5 January 2009: wow! that's my first reaction. someone that goes that far doesn't deserve love. i'd say divorce her, but again, that's your decision to make. if you love her that much and want to work it out, you gotta talk with her. because if she won't even try ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is needy, jealous, overbearing, irrational, temperamental, possessive and a control freak but says she's NOT insecure!!!!

Q.   Dear Cupid Imagine the most overbearing, needy, hyper-jealous, irrational, temperamental, possessive control-freak and thats my girlfriend. She's never been cheated on, I've been dead honest, but she has witnessed friends getting hurt. She believes...

A.   5 January 2009: hi there as much as i hate to say it. i'm a bit like ur girl. maybe not so freaky, but definitely jealous and a bit overbearing. ans yes, very very insecure. and yes, she most definitely is too. my boyfriend just used the word overbearing last nigh... (read in full...)

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