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writes:I found a text on my bfs phone [I realise I shouldn't have been looking] and it was from a girl that said "I am imaging us in the shower together". I feel sick. It didn't happen, she was just flirting. But all the same. Why would you say that to a taken guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): wow! no that is pretty bad, do you know who this woman is? if that was my man i would confront him straight up or send him packing, if he is hiding somthing he will try every excuse there is, dont let him fool you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): I am scared to bring it up incase he flips over me reading his text
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reader, Boy Blue  +, writes (1 October 2010):
Why? I suppose men and women sometimes want what we can't have. The whole "forbidden fruit" idea is a little intriguing. Plus she has nothing to lose and can destroy your relationship if she wants by doing such things. On wider scope, men actually think that there are other fish in the sea and when they see a taken girl, think "I want a girl like her". Women see a taken guy and think "I want him". Oh well, don't let a txt ruin your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): I would feel the same. I would not accept him speaking to her again after this. It might seem drastic but if he loves you then he should not be talking to a woman who would be so forward. Maybe she doesn't know he taken and if that is the case it all lies on him, I mean why wouldn't she know, what is he hiding. A text like that is not flirting. Don't worry if he asks why you looked at his texts after all that is not the point. People say watch out for other woman but it takes two to make something happen. You are worth more than that, don't let anyone treat you like that.
Best of luck to you.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Shame you didnt think to respond, "gee that would be great, but what if my boyfriend finds out"
She could have said it for a number of reasons:
she didnt know he was already involved
she didnt care he was already involved
she hoped you would find it and break up with him
she knows no boundaries
she is simply flirting
she and he are involved or
she and he were involved
why not ask your boyfriend, tell him how sick reading it made you feel
good luck with it all
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reader, amenthyst3356 +, writes (1 October 2010):
She is definitely not just casually flirting, she is full on hinting. Have you talked to your boyfriend about this? What has he said to this woman also? He might be flirting back if she feels comfortable enough to send this text.
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