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WHy would he make me think he doesn't want to be friends?

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Question - (17 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I really like this guy, who used to be my great friend, but now I would just count us as okay friends..

Like, he use to smile at me like everyday in our 6th hour, and he'd always look at me too. In the halls he'd wave and smile/say hi. But now in 6th hour, when we catch eyes, he only half smiles like he's forcing it or something. It seems like he could really care less about smilin at me. But when I don't smile back, he looks away kinda sadish then I feel bad. But a lot of days, I only catch it out of the corner of my eyes, and by the time I do look at him and smile, he's talking away to his friend or starin at his paper.

I'm so confused right now. Last year, he flirted with me, or it seemed like, and he always starred at me. Over the summer he texted me back and talked to me on myspace. And at the beggin of this year, he would smile, and wave, etc.

I think its cause his gf, he got just in september(like the same day I got my bf, but we broke up). But I don't know that for sure, maybe its his friends puttin him down for being my friend. Maybe its just him. My mom told me, it could be that his gf found out he likes me, and she doesn't want him talking to me. And I've gotton advice that maybe he just likes me more than his gf but can't show it?

Any of these could be true, but if he likes me, why would he stop texting me, sayin hi, smiling, etc? Why would he make me think he doesn't want to be my friend?

Thanks for all the Help!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (17 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntI think your mum is right here you should listen to her, am guessing that he did like you but he has a girlfriend now and i dont think she found out he likes you but am just guessing he is trying to focus on his girlfriend and stop himself from liking you therefore he is becoming distant with you, it would be hard for someone to be friends with someone when they once had a crush on them so dont take it like he hates you, he is just trying to get over you and move on with his girlfriend, go out and make more friends. goodluck

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