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im from england :)

and i just thought that everyone needs to talk about something and its good to talk to people who can have an outside veiw of a situation because they can give you a more un-biased advice XD

I'm 15 and want to know what will happen now...if I do happen to be pregnant?

Q.   i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been good mates for about ten years. we have now been going out for 3 months, and i think i am pregnant. what will happen if i keep the baby? please help me ...

A.   24 February 2010: what happens when if you decide to keep the baby is down to how supportive yur partner and parents are and yur financial position, yur eduction so much. you should really consider all these things and all the options you have.make sure to find out ... (read in full...)

How can I get my bf to spend more time with me?

Q.   how do i get my boyfriend to spend more time with me...i kno he loves me...but its jus sumtimes i think different....i don't kno why though....cuz i love him the same....it jus it seems like he wants to hang with his friends more then me...how can i ...

A.   28 January 2010: ah okayy hope it works out okay :) x... (read in full...)

How can I get my bf to spend more time with me?

Q.   how do i get my boyfriend to spend more time with me...i kno he loves me...but its jus sumtimes i think different....i don't kno why though....cuz i love him the same....it jus it seems like he wants to hang with his friends more then me...how can i ...

A.   26 January 2010: i guess you just have to ask him to make time, hes your bf so he shud want too spend time with you yu shundnt have too do stuff to make him wanna hang out x... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and want to know..why do I want to have a baby?

Q.   I am fifteen(10th grade) and I want to be pregnant. Plz don't say I'm stupid cuz I'm not going to become pregnant I just want to know why I feel this way. My bf and I are very serious, like engaged serious, we are sexually active and everything and ...

A.   25 January 2010: some girls around the this age sometomes feel like that but really dont even condsider having a preganancy because once having a baby your whole life changes, there first of is the whoel 9 months of your body going through soo many changes ... (read in full...)

Any tips on making friends?

Q.   So my problem is I can't make friends. I mean I hang out with a group of people at school but we don't talk outside of school or anything and so it feels like I have no friends. I am in clubs and stuff but I can't seem to make friends. I've lived in ...

A.   25 January 2010: maybe you should ask one of your friends from inside school to hang out outside school, being outside school could give you more time to be relaxed together and get too know eachother more. ... (read in full...)

He treats me well but I am not attracted to him

Q.   Okay.. I finally met this guy that treats me nice takes me out to eat and respects me well. However I'm not attracted to him at all. I love the fact that he treats me well but I want to be sure I can handle this before we get serious. I would never ...

A.   25 January 2010: maybe you could try something small with him such as a kiss and see if you feel anything, if you dont then theres no point staring a reltionship with someone your not really attracted to and theres no spark or excitement because thats just a long ... (read in full...)

He hates love 'coz it hurts'. So he dumped me!

Q.   Right, Me and my ex boyfriend J broke up due to his violent abuse and cheating on me. But the night after I broke up with J, I snogged another boy called T at a house party, I partly think it could have just been because I was hurting, But ...

A.   25 January 2010: ive kinda been in a similar situation with a boy and i no it suks :\ talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him for an honest answer of how he feels maybe he still likes you but is afraid of the feelings he has for you, so you ... (read in full...)

Does she like me more than just friends?

Q.   Long story short. I asked a girl out after 2 weeks of speaking to her she said she wanted to be friends. This was about 10 months ago.But I feel she likes me more than a friend. I want to tell her how I feel but I hadn't spoken to her for weeks ...

A.   25 January 2010: instead of waiting around trying too put the hints of things she does which may mean she likes you, why not try asking her out too somewhere like the movies, for a meal or anything fun :) and see how it goes XD x... (read in full...)

How can I get my bf to spend more time with me?

Q.   how do i get my boyfriend to spend more time with me...i kno he loves me...but its jus sumtimes i think different....i don't kno why though....cuz i love him the same....it jus it seems like he wants to hang with his friends more then me...how can i ...

A.   25 January 2010: all boys love to hang with there friends if you want too spend more time with him then maybe you shud suggest doing something together such as cinema or bowling or anything fun :) x... (read in full...)

I don't know how to get over post break up depression

Q.   Hi i wonder if you can help me, what is the best way to deal with post break up depression, as i have just came out of a 2 year relationship, i cant stop crying whenever a situation makes me think of my ex.... i get really bad insomnia sometim...

A.   17 January 2010: you should really try too do more stuff to keep yourself busy and see freinds more, and seeing as you have some eating problems why not try baking ( cupcakes rule :P ) xx... (read in full...)

Does this mean I'm a lesbian?

Q.   One day I went to my friends house and I was playing with her for like three hours then me and her went outside so her mother said by girls then we went out side then me and her was talking then started to wrestle so then I picked her up and put her ...

A.   17 January 2010: i know that you many think that your too young to be gay but i have an older brother who is gay who new since he was like 8 and there arent specific places you can find a girl friend soo you just have too hope that it finds you :) ... (read in full...)

I think I love my cousin, but in a romantic way, not a cousinly way

Q.   I think I love my cousin, not in a family way. But he's not really my cousin, we were both adopted. Is it wrong that I like him in a Romantic way? Please help!!...

A.   17 January 2010: okayy so your both adopted so technically your not related so either talk with your cousin see if he feels the same and what you should doo but seeing as you are seen as family the best thing to do it too go out with friends more and see if there... (read in full...)

Does this mean I'm a lesbian?

Q.   One day I went to my friends house and I was playing with her for like three hours then me and her went outside so her mother said by girls then we went out side then me and her was talking then started to wrestle so then I picked her up and put her ...

A.   17 January 2010: i dont think this means that you are a lesbien loads of girls have shared a kiss with another girl friend at some point, even me :L maybe you should try and imagine yourself as having a gf and being with her and kissing her if you enjoy ... (read in full...)

Why the sudden interest in me again by the ex?

Q.   my ex started to talk to me all of a sudden, its been almost a month since ive seen him really. He has talked to me before and basically telling me to contact him any time, text him, and to see each other real soon. But then he just disappea...

A.   17 January 2010: just meet with him and see how it goes, you never no seeing him may help you too realise your true feelings and help you to be more clear on the decision you make :) x... (read in full...)

Feelings for my first cousin once removed.

Q.   Hello everyone! I want to pose my question in a short manner, so here we go! Last January my much older cousin (she is only 5 yrs younger than my mom), and her daughter visited us from Iran. They stayed with us for one month then returned home. A...

A.   17 January 2010: at the end of the day this girl is your cousin and if you got into a serious relationship with her the fact shes your cousin will always remain in the back of your head maybe its best if you just go and find someone else theres loads of beautifu... (read in full...)

I'm infatuated with him but I so much want him to like me.

Q.   i'm 16 and in high school. i have this problem, ok theres this guy i met last year. i've liked him ever since i met him. sometime during last year he liked me but i didnt know and i said i only liked emo guys which he's not, so he gave up. towards ...

A.   17 January 2010: it sounds like a kinda difficult situation to be in but if he doesnt feel the same way, then remeber the fact that your only young and try going out with mates and seeing all the kind of boys the world has too offer, even tho he seems perfect for ... (read in full...)

Why the sudden interest in me again by the ex?

Q.   my ex started to talk to me all of a sudden, its been almost a month since ive seen him really. He has talked to me before and basically telling me to contact him any time, text him, and to see each other real soon. But then he just disappea...

A.   17 January 2010: maybe being away from you has given him time too look back on memeories you have had together and led him to realise how much he misses you and his true feeling for you . meet up with him as friends and talk it out and see what he has to say, don... (read in full...)

I love my husband AND my brother in law!!!

Q.   I'm in love with my brother in law: yes, I know it is extremely wrong but this is my story: I've been married for 11 yrs. My marriage is a good one though there are things I don't like about my husband...in any case, I do love my husband too. When I ...

A.   17 January 2010: maybe he is attracted too you but not in love with you, and he likes you for sex because the fact that your his brothers wife makes it more dangerous and exciting for him. you should have a talk with him and ask questions otherwise you will never ... (read in full...)

I am crushing on my cousin!

Q.   I don't know why but recently i have been having feelings for my cousin. Now i know that this is wrong but i just get weak at the knees when he smiles and i think he knows about it because he gives all the hints and we always give hugs and kisses to ...

A.   17 January 2010: wow thats really weird hes your cousin - blood related , just remind yourself of that everytime you see him. ... (read in full...)

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