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Why should he be the one having the good time!

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Question - (10 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago because he cheated on me but now i have to live with him because unfortunately i was very silly having ever got together with him because he is my flatmate in halls.

He's now seeing other girls and the rejection and jealousy really hurt. I'm the victim here, why should he be the one out having a good time?

Anyone offer any sympathy or advice? Please don't judge me for my mistake.

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A female reader, aunty t Ireland +, writes (10 March 2007):

aunty t agony auntYoure going to have to talk to him and tell him that if you have to live together there has to be some rules. You cant stop him having other relationships but it is so hurtful for you when you see him with other women. This is such an awful position for you to be in. Is there anyone else you or he could live with because you cant go on like this. If not then you will have to make a rule that he or you dont bring anyone back to your place. My heart goes out to you and i wish you all the best.

Aunty t.

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A female reader, SexKitten69 United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2007):

SexKitten69 agony auntHi,

Personally i think this is quite difficult but if it was me in your situation i would play him at his own games. So what if he's got different girls show him that he's not the only person in the world that can pull!

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A female reader, nicola79 United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2007):

nicola79 agony auntFirts of all everyone makes mistakes other wise how would we learn? He is a waste of space by the sounds of things and you will find someone that will love you,so dont worry.

If he is bringing these girls back you must tell him that he just cant do that because you have to live there too.

Is there anyone who you can tell so he wont be able to bring all these girls home? if not is there anywhere else you could go? you cant live your life like this flower.

I wish you all the best. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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