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writes: My husband and I have been separated 4 months, he cheated 4 years ago and I have a had a bad time with it, just when I was getting better from all the disagreements with this affair, he tells me he is unhappy that I will never forgive him....so he leaves, and disappears for 3 days...later I find out through an anonymous letter he has been seeing this lady and the woman had posted his pictures all over her fb...I cried I freaked...and called him he denied everything by this time he had been already separated from me and that is the excuse he uses, well its been 4 months hes been gone and the woman is in the picture we are not together he still tells me there is nothing going on with this woman...she is just a friend...I still love him..but so much has happened that I am so confused...he hasnt even filled out the separation papers which he told me to file for...and that has been 4 months, why is he with this woman, there not living together, and I also think she is the anonymous letter author...and the one who bbm my daughter with a pic of her and my husband....please I need some help, why is he denyng things even now that we are separated....I am a mess....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 January 2011):
 Do you have evidence that he has cheated with this woman? Could it be possible that they are only friends and she wants more therefore she is sending these letters so that she could break up your marriage? If you really wanted to get it sorted then you need to get this woman and your husband to meet you somewere and then ask them both to explain what has been going on.
I dont think i could forgive anyone for cheating and he has hurt you in the past. He may be lying and if he is he may be doing it as somewere deep down he still cares about you and is trying to protect you. But if you believe that he was unfaithful the second time round then dont contact him get him out of your life and move forward yes it will be hard for a while but you will get there.
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