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writes:I was dating a guy for 2 years and he went through a terrible/bitter divorce in 2002. In the 1st 10/mo, he'd tell me I was the women for him, he loved me, I was precious to him, etc. I have 2 daughters he has 2 sons the same ages. He had a real problem w/spending money on me or my kids. He was bitter about paying child support, he'd tell me he'd never take me on vacation because he already took his wife on vacation and he paid. On valentine's day he called to tell me happy valentines day and when I asked him what he was doing that evening, he said we could go out but it would have to be somewhere cheap. He works to hard for his money to spend it on some women, etc. I receive child support and he pays it so when we go out it should be a 50/50 deal. He started a fight w/me we had a 5 minute agrument and he never called me again. About 6 months ago he told me he wasn't ready to take on a women w/2 kids. He has 50% custody of his own children and I have a good job and a house of my own. He lives w/his parents - he's 48. I am so hurt to have been dumped. What kind of man does this to a woman?
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reader, aunt wendy  +, writes (13 March 2007):
it sounds like this man is still hurting over the break up of his marrage he treated his wife with gifts as a token of his love for her but now that they have split up he is regretting spending his money for the gifts he bought her,he sees this as a waste of money and does not want to go through this again which is why he has become tight wiith his money.as for him not contacting you and making stupid excuses he isnt worth the worry dont waste your time with this man and get out there and enjoy your life and find someone else you can do it go for it.
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