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hi my name is wendy im 32 years old with 4 children i have been through some tough times in my life from being married to an abusive man,gettiing divorced,having custody battles,having a partner who takes drugs,having issues with social services,and discovering my parents wernt actually my parents,i have now met a lovley man who for the past two years has helped me with some of these things he is 15years older than me and we have a great relationship if you need my help and advice on any of these issues i will be glad to help.

My son has been caught making fun of fat people. What can I do to make him stop this?

Q.   I received a phone call off my son's PE teacher yesterday about his behaviour. My son is 15 years old. The PE teacher told me he and a gang of two other boys stripped a fat boy to his underwear and pushed him into the mud, then walked away la...

A.   24 March 2007: well i feel sorry for the poor lad that they did this awful thing to and of course the other people they have called,they need to think how badly they are making these people feel,and also you hear such awful stories of how the people being bullied ... (read in full...)

He loves playing his computer game. Am I being unfair asking him to cut back so we can be together?

Q.   Hello, I'd just like a little advise on a situation im in at the moment. Basically me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 years and they've been brilliant but more recently, he has become extremely interested in a computer game which ...

A.   23 March 2007: i dont think you should ask him to choose because we all have our pastimes that we enjoy and asking him to choose would be wrong and selfish,i think the way you should handle this is by having a talk and ask him to cut back a bit so you can both ... (read in full...)

If I'm pregnant from the sex two nights ago, could I miss my upcoming period, or is it too early?

Q.   My husband an I had sex two nights ago and he ejaculated inside me. I'm due for my period in a week. If I'm pregnant from the sex two nights ago, could I miss my upcoming period, or is it too early?...

A.   21 March 2007: if an egg is fertilised then you wont usually get an upcoming period but in some cases some women still get periods and still be pregnant do the best thing and take a test.... (read in full...)

How can I get past severe sexual abuse ?

Q.   How do you get over severe sexual abuse... i am pregnant and have got a partner (not the babies dad) but when it comes to sex, i cant bear to let him touch me as it brings back horrible memories... please help I cant go through counselling again as...

A.   20 March 2007: have you got the courage to report this guy who abused you?i myself hsve just gone through a court case when i reported my abuser who abused me when i was ten it is hard to do at first but you can do it.secondly you should explain it all to your ... (read in full...)

He ejaculated inside me as I was beginning my period..could I still get pregnant?

Q.   hey everyone, this could be a really silly question but i need help, 2 weeks on friday i slept with this lad i kno but i was jus startin my period at the time i wasn't bleeding loads jus a little spots anyway i slept with him that nyt and he came ...

A.   15 March 2007: you can still get pregnant when your on your period i know as thiis happened to me you need to get a test as soon as you can and then you can decide your options, if its negative please make sure you use protection its better to be safe than ... (read in full...)

He's cheated with his cousin and gave me an infection! What am I to do now?

Q.   i have been dating a guy for now six months at times we quarrel and he starts to compare me with his xgirlfriend and he's had sex with his cousin in the past two weeks back she had an infection and im now having the same infection is it posible that ...

A.   15 March 2007: firstly you have to get straight down to the clinic to get tested do not keep putting this off as it may well be serious,secondly you should get rid of this guy he isnt worth your energy and he does not deserve you,if he truely loved you he wouldnt ... (read in full...)

If you are under the age of 16, can a girl go on the pill?

Q.   i was wondering if your under the age of 16 can you go on the pill. both me and my boyfriend are wanting to go further but i am terrified of getting pregnant!...

A.   14 March 2007: yes u can get the pill under 16 but just remember you are very young so please dont go rushing into anything until you are both sure its what you want,also you could go for the more effective contraception with the injection whwch you get every ... (read in full...)

How do I keep my gf interested in me, so I don't lose her?

Q.   hi...ive got a GF and i was just wondering how to keep her interested in me....cos i really dont want to loose her...thank you...:)...

A.   14 March 2007: first of all why would you think she would lose intrest in you?secondly the most important things that hold a relationship together are trust honesty and love if you both have all of them there really shudnt be a problem.take her out for meals ... (read in full...)

I have become controlling and obsessive because of trust issues, I really love him and WANT to trust him more. How can I do this?

Q.   dear cupid what do you think the best thing for me to do is ? i really need some help . i have been living with my boyfreind almost a year . we have always had trust issues and ive always confronted him when i think something is going on . we us...

A.   14 March 2007: you both have to sit down and have a good heart to heart and explain what it is that makes you feel like this.in a relationship there has to be complete trust on both sides.you could start and go out with your friends when he goes out so you dont ... (read in full...)

Why is he so tight and why did he dump me? Why is he being like this?

Q.   I was dating a guy for 2 years and he went through a terrible/bitter divorce in 2002. In the 1st 10/mo, he'd tell me I was the women for him, he loved me, I was precious to him, etc. I have 2 daughters he has 2 sons the same ages. He had a real ...

A.   13 March 2007: it sounds like this man is still hurting over the break up of his marrage he treated his wife with gifts as a token of his love for her but now that they have split up he is regretting spending his money for the gifts he bought her,he sees this as a ... (read in full...)

How can I have safe sex without condoms?

Q.   I have 6 kids. And I am pregnant again. How can I have safe sex without using condoms?...

A.   13 March 2007: the contraceptive injection or sterelisation would be the best thing to do if you do not want any more children or talk to your partner about the snip good luck... (read in full...)

Could my sickness and light-headedness mean I'm pregant? Even though I'm on the pill?

Q.   I'm on the pill but had sex without a comdom 17 days ago. Is it possible for me to be pregnant, because today while I was shopping I started feeling sick and very light headed as if I were going to faint....

A.   13 March 2007: first of all yes it is a possibility you may be pregnant you need to take a test asap to rule this out secondly have you been ill or taking antiibiotics recently as these can intefere wiith the pill and reduce protection good luck... (read in full...)

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