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Why, if a girl pursues a married man, does he fall into it? Why keep responding to her emails?

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Question - (28 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2008)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I know guys have their particular way of doing things. Now see this case.

A girl has started to email this guy, first as a friend, they met earlier in a business trip, they went diff ways. He replies right back at her , but it turns out the man is married.

The girl continues to pursue the guy (bad) now the guy replies as a friend only mentioning his family actually, but continues replying to her.

They both flirt in a friendly way, but the girl is the one pursuing him.

Now, what do U think about that, and even though the girl is doing something completely wrong, why the guy still follows the path?

not me, but my cousin just told me today, so what up with that, if the guy is far from where she is. Fooling around perhaps or can be dangerous for both if she continues this s***?

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A female reader, Twirly United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

Twirly agony auntI think that some married men will be flattered by the attention, and may get more involved than they intended to at the beginning.

Flirty emails can often be the start of an emotional affair, progressing to texts and phonecalls and meeting up and a full blown affair.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (28 April 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIt is called the pretty maiden trap.

Many men cannot resist and will succumbed..

No matter how strong or powerful you are ,

a man cannot resist the temptations of a siren.

Only those who fear God will run away.

The others will be like sheep's lead to the slaughter.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

SOME guys are like that sorry, but if it is put in their faces they will follow even if married or with kids or partner. Who ever is doiing this should back off and see it as a no hoper

take care

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

I think he knows the right thing to do - walk away from her and just be with his family. So he tries not to mail first, but then she mails and he can't help himself in replying. He probably fancies sex with her, but doesn't want to be accused of innitiating it. Well, that's my guess anyway. But yes, of course it can be dangerous! Someone, if not both, will almost certainly be hurt. His family could be ruined. Her heart could be broke. You just never know until the damage is done, and then that's too late.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (28 April 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

because he wants to have sex with her. It's as simple as that. You are under the mistaken impression that married men do not commit adultery. They do, and he looks like he is buttering up his next victim.

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