Why hasn't he called? Was I too mean?

A female age 36-40, *im90210 writes:

I was approached buy a guy exactly one week ago tonight at a wedding. He came up and sparked a convo with me and we totally hit it off. Halfway during our convo he said you have to let me get you coffee sometime and i kinda joked around and avoided it and later on he asked again and i said ok so he got my number but i didn't bother asking for his. Gladly thinking that was it and yay i met a seemingly great guy, the next night a few of us from the night before go out for dinner and he was invited too. Unfortunately i didn't look as cute or dolled up as the night before. He came and sat next to me at the table for 11 people and we talked throughout dinner, kinda getting to know each other (only making convo with me) so then during dinner he mentions how he's working the next day and i mentioned i was off and he said oh i was gonna see if you wanted to have lunch but i avoided the question and continued talking about the prior topic. halfway through dinner i switch spots with this guy so i can talk to my friend. anyways the group decides to go hang out afterwards but i said bye and was about to head home, so he follows. i continue saying bye and begin walking towards my car and i notice he follows. from a far he says some whitty comment about my car and i laugh then we part. was i too mean? why hasn't he called???

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