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Why don't my relationships last?

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Question - (17 March 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2013)
A female Nigeria age 26-29, anonymous writes:

im 18 and started dating when i was 16. Its funny but sad anytime i think about my current relationship as the 8th relationship im in now. And worst still i dnt see it survivin next one mouth. I dont really know what my problem is, all i hope since i was little is for a perfect relationship, but i dnt know if aanything like that exist.

Explainin myself in a nutshell, i'll say i dont descriminate, im nice alittle, very emotional and a wide thinker as well as a broad talker. Im a jealous person. I hate comparison. I dont really know why my relationship seem not to last for a long time. And why at the middle, i loose interest and the courage to continue. Is it that my partners cant encourage me or wot? And during this affair, im the one to visit but not all the time. Please anyone who has a suggestion, advice or help to improve my relationship should reply thanx.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2013):

That is an insane amount of relationships in only 2 years or less.

I've met people like you. Wanting the perfect relationship when there is none. That's why you see couples fight, because there is always something. I think you've been in so many relationships because you want to be in one, and they don't last because there wasn't anything between you and your other to begin with.

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A male reader, LivingWithBadDecisions United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2013):

LivingWithBadDecisions agony aunti had about 8 relationships in two years... thats why they didnt last coz there is only so much space in two years for 8 different relationships to fit. thats an averige(average?) of three months each but that gives you no time to get to know them before dating. take a break from guys and reassess why you are so desperate to find perfect relaitonships now. btw they are more of a childhood fantasy than truth. there are people that are perfect for you but that doesnt make them or the relationship perfect.

Cooper

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