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30-35,
*pendy
writes:this guy ive been chatting to.. i really like him.. i gave him my number...we flirt alot..hes got my number...he use to text me often but not anymore.. hes only called me once..and after the convo he texted me and told me i sound nice.we dont really talk anymore cos when he says he gunna call me he doesn't. hes done this alot of times.why doesn't he call when he says he will?? hes soo sweet to me and i think he might like me but now am not sure..he always chat to me on msn.but doenst call when he says he will:(why is he soo sweet, flirt but then doesnt call when he says he will??
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 When the man says they will call, they don't mean to call. It is just like saying 'Good morning or Good Night! ' They are just being courteous .
If they don't call, it means one thing, they are not interested.
If they are interested in you ,they will call you no matter how busy they are.
You have become their priority and if not then you are only an option.
He chatted with you because he was online and probably flirting with other girls too.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 I'm going to give a you different opinion. He's not busy or nervous, he's just not that interested.
He talks and flirts when he's got nothing better to do. He doesn't call when he says he will because you are not a priority to him.
I don't want to sound mean or harsh but if a guy is genuinely interested they will call on time, everytime. When I first started dating my now BF, we had a nice date and he said he'd call the next day. The next day he was playing rugby with his friends and suffered a concussion and had to be taken to hospital. He called me from hospital and when I told him he didn't need to call in those circumstances he said that he wanted to call so that I wouldn't worry and wonder why he didn't call as promised.
So, if a guy's too busy, and doesn't call when he says he will, but he still flirts and chats you up, he's not that interested. You deserve more than this. Ignore him a little, don't chat on msn...see if he calls you then. Don't allow anyone to take you for granted.
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reader, NJACKSN91  +, writes (16 March 2010):
He is probably just busy. There are 3 reasons I dont respond or call when I say I am going to. 1)I am very busy and end up not wanting to socialize with anyone. 2) I am nervous about texting/calling the person because they might be busy/in the middle of something/ect. 3) They are annoying and I want nothing to do with them. From the sounds of it: the flirting, chatting before, complimenting you it sounds like he might just be busy. The only way to find out is to call him and ask him whats up. If you call and he sounds annoyed then you know that he doesnt really want to be friends. If you call and he sounds excited to talk and very chatty then you know that he might have just been nervous to call.
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