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writes:I really like this guy, and he likes me too (says my close friend who talks to him). But he asked one of my friends, who is his ex girlfriend out about a week ago, and she didnt reply to him. He said he was upset that she had done that.My friend said she didnt really like him, but she might just go out with him anyway. No offence to him but last time she went out with him she cheated on him and dumped him for another guy, only to take him back for a day the dump him again. I dont know if he knows about the cheating.Anyway she asked me if I liked him, because she wasnt really bothered. I said that she could have first choice as it was her he asked. She seemed uninterested, so when she asked me I told her I did like him. Next thing I know they're going out, but secretly, im not meant to know lol. He did say he didnt think it would last so Im a bit confused at whats going through there heads. But whats bad is that his girlfriend keeps saying he likes me, which is a obvious lie! Is she trying to upset me?
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 Yes she is trying to upset you. If you have not already figured it out, your "friend" is an emotional manipulator, playing with people, and doing whatever she can to keep you ALL off balence so that she can control you like puppets on strings.
Why would you want to be freinds with someone who treated her bf so poorly? Why would you have trusted her with any of your secrets, or anything that comes out of her mouth?
-FBK
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): Don't worry about this guy, he seems quite immature, as does your 'friend'. Respect yourself, accept that they are playing silly games and forget about him, you're worth more than that! Wait until you find someone who loves and respects you and you will look back and laugh about this whole situation!
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