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writes:HI All,Your insights would be most welcome!! I finally ended it with my ex- well he was an ex but we were still kind of in touch. It was a very volitile relationship,I really loved him, but I got very hurt, and was very angry that he would send me random messages just when I was getting over him. Anyway, I finally lost it and sent him a really vile email to cut it off once and for all. Before that he was blocking me on messnger, and appeared not to want to talk to me, but ever since that vile message around three weeks ago - he has been back on messenger, and infact everytime I log in, he logs in as available and when I log out , he logs out. I don't understand after I sent him that message why he would do this? is he feeling bad? wiaitng for me to back down or what? I am curious.....Thanks. :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi all, thanks for your answers. On reading them, I realised the guy is a complete waste of time and an idiot. I WILL NOT play into his stupid games. I WILL NOT message him and give him the satisfaction of ignororing me or an ego stroke, I will not let him know that his exsistence matters to me. I have no diea how he is feeling... I still love him but do not want to get hurt again. I will stay off the damn messenger, and get on with my life. That will show him that I mean business. i don;t trust his motivations or intentions , andhe obviously has too much time on his hands. Sod it. I need to move on. Thank you for the insperation. :o) xxxxxxx
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (19 May 2011):
 Just block him, so you can't see what he is doing and keep moving forward without him.
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (18 May 2011):
If he inspires so much emotion in you that you take the trouble to write him a vile email, then he knows he is on your mind. He's not so dense that he's contacting you again, but he's curious enough to make himself available for you to contact, be it a nice gesture like an apology or another vile email which at least demonstrates that his existence matters to you.
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (18 May 2011):
 Hello,
He seems to be leaving the door open for further communication. I dare say the ball is in your court. You could block him permanently if you are finished with him. If not, then message him if you still want him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 May 2011):
It's a very good question. Perhaps his ego can't help wondering whether you'll snap and come crawling back. The best thing to do is be proactive and block him. That'll get rid of the problem permanently.
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