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writes:My Ex Girlfriend is getting mad the fact is i'm trying to screw other girls besides her but i know for a fact she screwing other guysMy Ex Girlfriend and myself have been apart a 5 week's this week. in that 5 week's she slept with 4-5 guys maybe. last night i was braggin about the fact i asked hannah my brothers girlfriend to set me up with some of her mates and my ex said " y would u like it if i asked your brother 2 set me with some of is mates? " i said " i just want more sex " she said " y don't u get enought from me? " we meet everyday i give her oral pleasure and we have sex once a week.now the part thats doing my head in now is she's found someone she like's called james they met last weekend 6th Jan 2007 she felt him up in the club and he felt her up 2. (as i read in her phone)on the 5th of jan she had sex with me for the first time in a month as friends. on the 6th of jan she told me she went home with her mate sherri. but the txt james sent cheryl was saying " did u have fun with akie last night? " akie is my ex's first serious boyfriend they was together 2 years he cheated on her. end of story i guess. my ex told james " nofthing happened with akie where just friends " all week from the 7th - 12th jan 2007 my ex as been sending txt messages to james saying stuff like she likes him and she's lonely on her own she needs a boyfriend. on friday night i had planed for me and my ex to go 4 a drive because i started driveing on friday but james got back in town early. so she said sorry james is back in town maybe another time. she went to a party with james and mates. Fri 12th Jan 2007. she had her tonque pierced she did her nails. she ignored all my txt. and i read her phone on the 13th jan 2007. and 1 of her mates called owen said " aw i want a blow job now u give james 1 y not me? " so she give james a blow job? and in another txt james put " u will have 2 get used to haveing a sore pussy and a big dick " so in my eyes she slept with him aswell.but now i wanna start sleeping with others it's another matter. i asked my ex last night if she had any 1 night stands whilie we been apart she said " NO! " i wanna believe her but i know it's not true. on the 12th of jan james sent my ex a message " lets find out if that tonque bar does what it meant to do " after he sent that she ignored my txt. now she's thinking of going back this weekend. she says she sleep's over on a sofa bed in a room with 6 people. he asked her throw the week in 1 of is txt " fuck me " and she said " ok lets do it anytime " i asked my ex last night for a bit of fun she said no. got mad and told me " is that y i wanted me to cum up " i said no. throw the middle of the night i started licking her tits and she woke up and she said " mark lick me out " so i did 1hr of pleasure 4 her. she jerked me a little. i asked her if she will ever give me a blow job she said " u never really asked 4 1 " she said she would of give me 1 but her tonque is hurting her. sould i believe she give james a blow job?sould i believe she never slept with anyone besides me? i dont wanna lose contact with my ex she's my best friend and i told her if she slept with anyone i would like 2 know. she agreed she would tell me. but she doesn't wanna know about anything i do with anyone else.y do u think she doesnt want me to sleep with anyone else beside her?
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (17 January 2007):
 I do not even need to leave past first paragraph to see that you are both jealous of each other.
Want an easier life? Talk to her, discuss your true feelings and make up both your minds if you want to be "together" or not.
you enjoy sex together: Great
you both want sex with others: Like or Lump it!
Deal with it!
This problem is brought on by both of you. You decide
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): Excuse me, but this is one hell of a mess! To begin with, this girl is your EX, so why are you still sleeping with her in the first place?
Don't you know that "ex" means you both go your separate ways and have no further contact? Ah, but you want to remain "friends" with her. Well, you can't have it both ways - let me rephrase that: You CAN have it both ways, but as you are finding out, not without a lot of trouble and aggro.
Quite obviously she's sleeping around with whomsoever she fancies......it should not be any of her concern who YOU sleep with, however. Remember, you are broken up.
My advice would be to stop all contact with her.
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Frankly, this is why the FWB thing doesn't work out, especially if both parties were involved in a relationship with each other prior to this new arrangement. My suggestion, admit that sometimes you can't have everything that you want, stop sleeping with your ex, mind your own business when it comes to who she is sleeping with (OR performing oral sex on), remain her friend, if possible, and get on with your own life. All either of you are doing to each other is tormenting each other with suspicion, jealousy, and doubt. If you remove the sex from your relationship, you may survive with a friendship in tact, if not, don't be surprised if both of you end up NOT liking each other at all. Seems like common sense to me.
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