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writes: Me and my ex are friends wit benefits. Niether of us dont want a relationship or are messin with no one else. Well earlier 2day i txt him sayin i wanted his body and that i was horny and wanted to gave him head and i asked him if i could. Well he didnt txt me back so i txted him sayin im sorry if i was makin him uncomfortable and he said i was and that he didnt want to talk bout that stuff. It doesnt make sense cuz when im wit him we fool around alot. I tell myself not to worry bout it but i dont know. Im an open person and im comfortable tellim him anything. How should i take this?
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 sounds like he wants benefits when it suits him not you!
He is to embarressed to see it in black and white that is what it means. Because he knows it is wrong.
If you are happy with this type of relationship, then pursue it with someone less selfish and more willing to play when you want as well.
The fact that you are bothered about it means that you are getting emotions getting in the way. It is what happens to one of the parties concerned. That is why friends with benefits do not work long term.
In my opinion, either Friends or Lovers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): I think friends with benefits stinks. The "benefits" are for the guy: he gets to have sex and no responsibility for any emotional ties. I guess some women CAN be comfortable with that, but most of the time, sooner or later one of them wants more.
Forget him and live your own life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): I think this relationship sounds a bit one sided and it is all down to you. Come on walk away and get yourself a proper bf of your own. You must of split up for a reason, then why hang on to something that isn't any good. Get rid and get your own!
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): I think this relationship sounds a bit one sided and it is all down to you. Come on walk away and get yourself a proper bf of your own. You must of split up for a reason, then why hang on to something that isn't any good. Get rid and get your own!
Take care
xx
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reader, shania +, writes (15 January 2007):
 When you txt him,telling him that you wanted to "give him head" he didn't reply because he was not in the mood,or he was tied up in something else.Now what puzzles me is you said that you two were just friends with benefits with no strings attached....so why the sudden panic,when he didn't want it? It wouldn't be because your getting keen on him,would it? This friends with benefits issue seems to work out very well with fellas,i always think that the girl gets serious and always want more.Maybe im wrong,but it rarely works out in the end.
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 erm..you mentioned "take this", well what this this refer to? a relationship with him(gf/bf) or a sexual one?
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