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writes:So. My husband gets hard pretty easily and can stay hard if we have sex immediately once he's ready. But if I need a little more foreplay so that I can get wet and ready, he loses his erection. Why is that/? Is it something wrong with me? Or he has some issues/? What is going on here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): It is probably not that he doesn't like you, but could be because he doesn't like foreplay and is just doing it for your benefit. Sometimes men and women both do things for their partners that they don't like so that they can make their partners happy. If that were the case, and it might not be, then be happy that he wants to make sure that you are enjoying the sex.
I happen to like giving my wife oral sex before intercourse so that she has an orgasm and is ready and I normally stay hard while doing it. However, sometimes I'm not completely into it and do it anyway and them I will tend to lose my erection.
It most likely has nothing to do with you doing anything wrong. How long have you been married to him and did this just become a problem? As men age, it becomes harder to keep an erection. The age that this problem begins can be in their 40s or not until their 60s or even 70s.
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reader, pyan  +, writes (30 January 2010):
hi
its not you i say its his age, but let him forplay you and you hold onto him or try things when you are ready and i am sure he will soon be hard again.
it happens to me my wife like to cum first and like lots of forplay, if she talks dirty, give me oral i will stay very hard but if i just give to her i will go semi and then i need the boost.
let ys know how you go or what you try
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 January 2010):
It's not you. At his age, maybe he's just having difficulties keeping it up all the time. A guy can't stay hard fur a very long amount of time, especially if he's busy focused on giving you extra foreplay. I'm sure there's no problem, and it certainly isn't you at all.
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