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30-35,
*occergirl4life
writes:Why do guys think that just because him and his girlfriend are in a fight that he can go around flirting with his girlfriend's friends who he just likes as friends?????????????????
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reader, soccergirl4life +, writes (20 November 2008):
soccergirl4life is verified as being by the original poster of the question but the problem is that he flirts with me and i like him so it drives me crazy
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 November 2008):
 I'm guessing here. He does it because he wants to really hurt her and make her angry. It gives him the power over her when she gets angry and she becomes hysterical, because then she's easy to manipulate.
He does it because he's trying to feel like he's so hot and sexy that he could have any girl he wants and he's proving it to himself and quite possibly to her.
He does it because he knows it gets her goat.
He does this because then the girl gets angry about this and forgets what the cause of the argument is.
This girl, if she is wise, will learn when to turn a blind eye and how to enlist her girlfriends' help in this. She will choose her battles carefully. She will not react hysterically, nor will she escalate the battle which means she will not indulge in overkill. She will remember what the fight was about and then try to figure out a way to have a reasonable discussion about that issue.
She will roll her eyes when he flirts with her girlfriends, and then after he walks away from the girls, she will go over to them, and say something like, 'isn't he just like a man?' and try to get them laughing with her.
If she reacts too strongly to this provocation, he will know how to get at her every time. She will have trained him how to really get her crazy. She will instead figure out a way to get him to see her side without too much drama.
Hope this helps!
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reader, soccergirl4life +, writes (13 November 2008):
soccergirl4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey will you plaese help, I really could use the advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, soccergirl4life +, writes (21 October 2008):
soccergirl4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey anyone there i realy need help so if u cauld plaese help me
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reader, soccergirl4life +, writes (16 October 2008):
soccergirl4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno he is not my boyfriend he just the guy who i am in love with and he going out with my bestfriend and flirts with me when they have had a fight
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): hes proberly trying to get you jealous or trying to show you he can still pull girls, just play it cool when he flirts next just do the same thing then when he moans about it just reply you know how it feels now, then agree with him neither of you are to flirt from now on.
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