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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Tell me why I feel like cheating on my girl all the time and why do I feel like I'm gonna lose my girl to my mates or her exes and I keep pushing her away, I haven't cheated up to this date but I keep feeling like I should. Tell me why I keep telling her to go with her ex and telling her 2 leave me alone.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (6 March 2008):
 Im with 'love him' here. That answer sounds right on the button!
Get a grip before you actually do lose her and wish you hadn't!
Good luck.
C xxxxxxx
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (6 March 2008):
 The other two answers are bang on the money. You have insecurity issues which have either come from a past relationship experience or some other cause in your past. You want to cheat because you feel unsure of what you have and think the best way to get around that is to 'insure' yourself by finding somebody else. Don't do it. You will feel wretched about it and even if you do manage to find somebody else, break-up your current relationship and settle with this new person then the same issue will invariably come up in this new relationship.
From what you say here there is nothing wrong with this relationship accept your insecurities. Hopping from rock to rock wont work and you will end up kicking yourself if you do. Try and get to the bottom of your insecurities and work on them within your current relationship. Good luck :).
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reader, love-him +, writes (6 March 2008):
 HEY!!
You are insecure and thats why you think she is going to leave you and you are trying to push her to her ex, to hurt yourself and proove yourself right. This girl deserves you to be better, you need to calm down and trust her more..
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): It sounds as though you have an insecurity problem. You need to start trusting your girlfriend instead of pushing her away, if you're not ready for a relationship end it now before you do cheat. Cheating on her is the worst thing you could do to her. If your girlfriend wanted to be with your mates or her ex then she wouldn't be with you.
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