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writes:We broke up 3 months ago, and in the past 6 weeks, my ex boyfriend has had a few conversations with my family and friends, about me, and how he feels about me. He had gone so far as to say his feelings came back for me when he saw me one day (probably the only time we'd seen each other since we broke up).In the past week we've been in contact more, and I've been to see hima few times. Everytime, he's hugged me goodbye, but a real lingering hug. And the last time I went to see him he kissed me on the cheek too.I was out drinking last night with friends, and I got the courage to text him about the conversations he'd had, and telling my friend that his feelings had come back for me. But he was quite distant about it and wouldn't really give me a straight answer.I feel all up in the air and I don't know if he likes me still or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think maybe I moved too fast.
But he was really pushing things, like getting back to how intimate we were - saying several times throughout different visits that we should go out for a drink and I can sleep at his place, putting 2, 3, 4 x's in text messages at the end, sending me messages with little poems about how special I am to him.
I feel like he messed with my head, not knowing what he wanted, and now he's not speaking to me because I questioned him.
He sent me a very short text today, no kisses or anything in the message, and when I replied asking if he still wanted to do something tonight, as he had asked me to come over and see him, I haven't had a reply.
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reader, mightyhawk +, writes (22 March 2008):
 Although it does sound like his feelings are returning, i would not jump at hm straight away, as he may be battling a few demons about this, as should you. You have to remember the reason for you breaking up in the first place, and do you realy want to go back there? Don't hastle him, if you both do want to get back together, he may not want to be rushed, and nagging and quationing may send him straight away again, i hope i have helped. x
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reader, Emmy-Lou +, writes (22 March 2008):
 To be honest, it sounds like there are some lingering feeling on his side.
The only real way to get a straight answer out of him is to ask him face-to-face.
That way when he blushes or looks away you know their is definately something still there.
Hope this helps and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): maybe it is a case of wanting to try again, however he may not want to rush into things for it to go wrong later on. after all he's a man and they tend to hide feelings quite well and it might be that he's just embarassed that you know the emotional side to him. just see how it goes carrying on what your doing. it might all come together again. good luck!!
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