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I'm 19 living in middlesbrough, north east england. Currently not in a relationship, just lost my job and found out iv been used. I can give the best advice I can based on my own mistakes and where iv gone wrong.

How do you know if a condom splits?

Q.   I feel a bit embarrassed asking for advice but here goes, I have been seeing this girl for a few months and we both want to sleep together, she has had a lot of boyfriends where I have only slept with a girl once when I was drunk and cant really ...

A.   10 August 2010: Well what id do, before the condom is used, fill it will water and if any water comes out of it then its no good, also open it properly and buy the correct size. If however you find the condom has spit after you've had sex then I suggest the morning ... (read in full...)

I've got stong feelings for this guy but he's using me for sex...

Q.   few months ago ive been seeing a guy who i have strong feelings for but he's been using me for sex, and i told him i want more than this. its very hard to get a smile from him he wont have a normal convo, he's very disrespectful, why does he hate me ...

A.   10 August 2010: Sorry to hear about your situation, iv just been used myself, its happened to me twice now. You need to just forget about him and find someone who deserves you, no one deserves to be treated like that. ... (read in full...)

Do u think that I should continue talking to my ex even though its obvious my boyfriend is my choice?

Q.   Me and my ex boyfriend have been talking and friends. He called me one time a couple weeks ago. Every time I try and talk like friends he always says he misses me. I really don’t believe he does miss me because he would try to win me back. He really ...

A.   10 August 2010: I think you need to let go. Its obvious that you still feel something for him. You need to remember what he done to hurt you and end all conversation with him for your current relationships sake... (read in full...)

Girl I met while travelling... or my girlfriend. Who to choose?

Q.   I have just come back from travelling for 10 days. Before setting off i had a girlfriend of two months, Whilst travelling i spent an awful lot of time with another girl on the same trip. I feel very strong about her and now im not with her i miss ...

A.   10 August 2010: I think you should go with the one you feel the most about. But do it quickly, it'll only be harder later on. Break it to them genty and be honest about why you have done this so they don't think its something they have done.... (read in full...)

Sex Responsibly

Q.   I really want to have sex. I'm not dating anyone at the time, but if i do and she agrees, I want it to be special, and I don't want to get her pregnant. Questions: Will it hurt me? Will it hurt her? Are condoms 100% effective? Are th...

A.   7 August 2010: Your first time should be special, but make sure that you talk it through and you are both absoloutly sure that its what you both want. It shouldn't hurt you, it possibly will hurt her and condoms are 97% effective. There are different kinds of ... (read in full...)

Should I put off having another baby until I finish my course?

Q.   I'm 24, I'm thinking of going to uni in sept to further my education, which i think is the best for future employment, the course is 3 years long, i really want another baby with my bf, we have a really good relationship, and i want my 3 year old ...

A.   7 August 2010: If this is something you really want (both of you), then I say go for it. Make sure you have plenty of support both morraly and financialy and give it a go. Gook luck... (read in full...)

Boyfriend lacks confidence and doesn't believe me! What can do?

Q.   I'm 17 about to turn 18 soon and me and my boyfriend who i have been dating for about 3 years decided to have sex. the only problem was that i didnt bleed. i've heard that that isnt something to particullary worry about but my boyfriend is hung over ...

A.   7 August 2010: I didn't bleed when I first had sex either. Next time you have sex, make sweet groaning noises and tel him what you like him doing to you and hell think he's the best in the world... (read in full...)

Why are women attracted to big penises?

Q.   Granted I myself am not very well equipped, being at 4 inches long and 4 inches in girth. I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Some girls have told me that smaller penises aren't attractiv...

A.   7 August 2010: Don't worry about it, its more about the width than the legnth. These girls are just shallow, I don't think they'd like it if you started making fun of them if they had small boobs. If they truely like you then they won't care about size.... (read in full...)

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