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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm still not over my ex!my ex and i was together 16 months he found me on myspace we started out as just friends talking and hanging we started talking september 19th and started dating october 7th. he didn't ask me out and i didn't ask him out we just ended up being boyfriend and girlfriend we took things really slow. a month later i found out i was pregnant. he stood by me the whole pregnancy he was there for me. he did break up and make up a lot. we had silly little fights over nothing a lot. we have been broken up 5 months and i'm still not over not even a little. he is not married to the girl he had been dating for a month. we broke up because i wasn't being a girlfriend i wasn't really acting how a girlfriend should act i was being selfish. he did everything for me bought anything i wanted. got medicine when i was sick. he was absoultely the best guy i have ever met! while we have been broken up before he got married we still cuddled, kissed etc. then when he got married he backed off. but when he comes around to see his daughter he kicks me in the butt he still wants to buy me things even if his wife doesnt like the idea of him getting me things. i can go days and weeks without texting him or seeing him, and when i text him or he texts me, or when i see him my feelings just come back and i get depressed and miss him even more. everywhere i go i see or hear something that reminds me of him.i know he has moved on and i know i need to as well but i'm not interested in any guys. and when i do find a guy im interested in they only want sex. our relastionship wasnt the best we had our ups and downs. we always had fun together we always knew how to make each other laugh, i know everything about him inside and out. he knows everything about me too. he can tell when something is wrong with me when im happy when im mad sad etc. we have everything in common. him and his new wife have nothing in common they are completely different. my family and friends keep telling me he still cares and that his marriage wont last cause of it being rebound. why am i not over him yet when he's already over me?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (13 August 2012):
 Not everyone moves at the same speed. Maybe it is taken you longer because you have regrets because of how you acted? Where as.. it was easier for him.. because of how you acted.
However, I don't think ANYONE can get over a person in a month, no matter how they acted.
You just got to remember that you NEED to let him go.
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