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26-29,
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writes:I really want a boyfriend but most of the boys at school are selfish or sexual. How do i know the difference before it is to late?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 January 2008):
 If you are looking for a b/f from your age group, they are still immature and childish in thoughts .You will need to look for an older boy who understands females better.
Someone who will respect , adore and make you happy.They do not force you to do anything against your will but who are willing to go out of their way to please you.
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (25 January 2008):
 Honey... you are still very young. What's the rush?If I were you, be friends with guys, treat them like they are your brothers. Having a "brother" relationship with a guy at your age would be verry rewarding.If they want to touch your chest, or "down THERE", or try to kiss you... then they are sexual. Have respect for yourself ... and don't be afraid to display it. If you show respect for yourself, other people will respect you also.If they don't like to share things with you... then they are selfish.If you are in a "rush" because you see other girls having boyfriends ... that is called "peer pressure." In other words...Wanting to do something just because other people are doing it and you feel LEFT OUT.My mother always taught me to "have a mind of my own." Don't follow the crowd, don't be affraid to be your own person. Don't be affraid to be an individual with your own style and ideas. Because, those are traits of a LEADER, not a FOLLOWER. One of her favorate sayings was: " if other kids jumped off a bridge, WOULD YOU DO IT TOO?"Study, get good grades, think of college. And ... BE A LEADER!
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