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writes: Recently, I masturbated properly for the first time. Before hand, I never really found it a turn on. But I put on some porn and masturbated and had quite a good time. The only thing is, now I feel like I've cheated. I wasn't looking at porn for the guys (or the girls for that matter) but just to experiment to see if it turned me on - which it did.Now I just feel dirty, and unclean. I didn't enjoy it as much as I enjoy him touching me though. I know I shouldn't feel guilty, but I do. How can I get over this feeling? Has anyone else felt this way? HAVE I actually done just as good as cheating?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (25 January 2008):
 In my opinion, no, it's perfectly normal on occasion for both men and women to get a little pleasure (perhaps a lot for many) when you need to release. It's not cheating in my opinion either. But when I have a lover in my life who is both satisfied and satisfies, and readily available, I save it all for my partner (in my case a woman).
When a partner is not available for any lengthy period of time, like between lovers or marriages, it's even healthier to have sexual release at least once in awhile rather than going long periods of time with none at all. It's part of having a human body that have many various needs.
Personally, it doesn't adequately replace reality for me, but that's just me.
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