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writes:Hi I'll keep it brief. Im so confused* 6 weeks ago ex dumps me after 6 months. Likesme but not falling in love!!* 2 weeks later she txts Hi, u ok? I reply briefly Im ok and then silence from her* Then 4 weeks of no contact* This weekend she txts Hi, u ok? I don't reply and shetxts again and threatens to delete me for ignoring her, she'll not call me again and wishes me good luck.* I reply, hey relax, you don't want me as boyfriend and i'm just repecting that. im ok. I hope you are too.* Her, i'm only trying to be nice. I think about you lots, . I still care. you're great guy!!* Her, Would u prefer i dont contact you again?* Me (trying to be unfazed) Hey, I have no probs chatting whenever* I then dial her. No answer and she txts after a while saying sorry she missed my call* An hour later She then txts ' I miss you'* Im in bed asleep so in morning I reply 'thanks I'll call you. When are you free to speak?'NOTHING..not a word back..She's disappeared. That was 3 nights ago nowAny help please
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (16 November 2011):
 "threatens to delete me for ignoring her"
tell her to go ahead.
then ignore her.
drama.queen.needs.to.be.gone.
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reader, probinator190 +, writes (16 November 2011):
Just wanted to say you are not alone.I'm in a similar situation.hang in there.I don't know what to do either.My ex agreed to start meeting every weekend.But only in an out of town motel.Says we are now back together and we can get married.But aside from meeting in hidden motel room and taking money from me.She basically has no contact.Even when she assures me that it's ok to call and tells me to call.She has not once answered the phone or returned one call.Always a lame excuse.And her job hours seems to be different everyday.Stringing me along and it's killing me.won't tell me a thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2011): I feel like i ruined it by saying:
'hey relax, you don't want me your life as boyfriend and i'm just repecting that. im ok. I hope you are too.'
After all she was just seeing how i was? This seemed to upset her
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (16 November 2011):
 Hi,
I am going to be honest and sorry if I am rude.
3 words: drama queen / selfish / immature.
Be glad she broke up with you... She did you a big favor... Be glad you are not in love, and didn't become more attached...
You want good people in your life, people you can depend on, and she's clearly not girlfriend material, nor a friend.... So, why even bother wasting your time thinking about her?
Good luck...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 November 2011):
I get the feeling she's a bit of a drama queen, and she likes to know you'll respond whenever she texts you. She enjoys the control of knowing she can text you, threaten you, play you like a violin.
You need to stop contact with her yourself. Never, ever speak to her again.
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