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What's preferrable: big boobs or small boobs?

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Question - (10 May 2007) 20 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, Just a Girl... writes:

So, what do guys prefer??

big boobs or small boobs?? Personally ive got big boobs so knw how guys react to them. But really wats better??

xxx

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A male reader, Carbon United States +, writes (20 August 2008):

im a guy, to me, i dont like small boobs that are like little bumps and what not, but really big fake boobs are kinda nasty to...i prefer nice size boobs, like it the C cup range. =]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008):

mine range from A-B also, but i think that's the perfect size for me because i'm thin. if they were bigger, i think they'd look disproportionate to my body. a plus to smaller boobs is that you can get away with low-cut apparel and not look trashy.

but anyway, as long as your happy with yourself, i don't think others will care. guys like confidence above all, i think.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

big boobs with little small bum.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008):

As everyone here has said, it's largely down to opinion, though I think it's widely accepted that most guys would of course like decent sized, firm (perfect, if you will) tits as opposed to nauseating monstrosities or a barely noticeable pair of nipples. Personally I have little interest in boobs. In fact unlike a lot of guys I prefer them smaller than average for the simple reason that I like petit girls. I like thin and fit and those traits don't seem to go hand in hand with large lipid-storing breasts so I suppose subconsciously I pay a hell of a lot more attention to a beautiful face, a sporty body and perhaps most of all, a cute smile. I think, perhaps as us guys seem to pay WAY too much attention to half an inch here or there, chicks fret WAY too much over the size of their boobs. If you seriously think a boob job will give you a boost in confidence, go for it! I'm sure as hell not going to argue, but I'll take a kiss and a hug from a girl with a gorgeous smile over a miserable one with awesome tits any day!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008):

oh how refreshing to read this!!!

i am a 21 year old woman. ive always been naturally thin - i have two brothers (23 and 18) and i eat more than them. I can't gain weight...have very skinny arms and legs and im an A-B cup. all my fat goes to my bum and a bit to my tummy. so i guess u could say i have a pear shape. anyways i was an early developer so i used to absolutely HATE having breasts... (an 11 yr old with a B cup is not fun!!). but now that im 21 and i vary between an A and B cup, I've started to feel insecure about my lack of cleavage and have started wishing for breast implants. but i hear a lot of men find them unattractive and i have to say i have seen very few "natural jobs"...but that said, if someone wants one then go for it. reading this has given me some confidence tho and made me realise it doesnt matter what size i am - there is someone out there for everyone. my previous boyfriends always seemed to love my body despite it's flaws. we women need to be more confident in who we are.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

Im a guy and i think small boobs are more attractive than large boobs

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

who really cares about what size ur boobs are. its really the personality, having confidence etc. that should matter!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008):

why is it that men like to rub their penis against womens boobs?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

I think big boobs are better, they are nice to grab on too i love it wen they bounce up and down while habving sex, its a real turn on.

But i dont think it realy matters, when a woman is confident a man doesnt care what size or shape you are FAT or SMALL, also having great confidence is a major tunr on

To the anonymous 46 with tiny boobs, i think that tiny boobs look child like which you did mention about which is not a good thing, womanly is great.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

doesnt really matter to me im in love with a girl and i think she is like a a or b idk know for sure their not that big but boy am i ever attracted to her.

to the post below mine a g cup!!you cant live in america a g cup is bigger then pamela anderson i mean it is your choice and it does fall under personal taste but..good lord!!

at any rate hopes this help widen your perspective

-michael

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008):

Personally I love huge boobs (at least a G cup), the bigger the better but that's just me. Some men like small boobs, some like them somewhere in between and others don't care either way. It's all down to personal taste so there's not really a "better" size to have.

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A male reader, daletom United States + , writes (21 January 2008):

My wife is an A-cup, and I can hardly keep my hands off her. And she cooperates - she doesn't need a bra and seldom wears one so her natural shape (nipples and all) is outlined by her top and she is always available for a loving caress or fondle. Of course, it was GREAT when she was pregnant and nursing, and she blossomed out to a "C". I guess others said it right - guys just like boobs!

Large or small, I prefer firm, shapely boobs to floppy, sagging ones. So I guess the small-breasted women have an advantage as they get older. And when it gets up-close and personal, implants and fake ones are a turn-off.

Don't fret over what you have, or don't have. There are plenty of guys who will find you gorgeous, regardless of how busty you are.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008):

big boobs are over comercialized so i think smaller is better......too much is a waste anyway isnt it :D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007):

Small boobs, I prefer A's or smaller, they don't sag, they are firmer and sexier to me...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007):

i prefer bigger boobs, but not too big. proportionate is great.

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A male reader, zgeek United States +, writes (11 May 2007):

zgeek agony aunthm......we just like "boobs" big, small, med. whatever. It varies from guy to guy. personally i really do not care what the size of my significant others boobs are. Really you do not need to worry about what guys would prefer. Worry about finding someone that loves you and cares about you. It's not really the clarity of ones boobs that attracts guys. It is "you" in general. the whole picture-Personality,eyes,face,hair,but,boobs,body,legs...... ....etc Some of us prefer a certain hair color, eye color. some prefer nice butts some love boobs.........etc Be confident of how you are, just be yourself and you will find someone that loves you. god bless.

ZGEEK

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (10 May 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntHey sweetness,

I used to work with naked woman, and trust me. Men like BOOBS. Big ones, small ones, all guys are different. They just love BOOBS. They aren't picky. Love the boobs you have and hold them proud!! Neither size is bigger or better. All boobs are glorious!

xxIndia

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A female reader, Country Woman United Kingdom + , writes (10 May 2007):

Country Woman agony auntWell like anything else, all men are different, some like bums and long legs, some like red heads, or blonds or women with black hair.

Boobs are the same, a lot of men like women who are big chested as it is a turn on but again you can't pigeon hole all men into one category.

Women are the same, I personally like a guy with fantastic eyes and a tight bum but some women look for different things in men, they prefer a blond to a dark haired guy.

I used to work in a pub part time for 13 years so being big chested meant that a lot of men used to end up having conversations with my chest compared to my face but that is just animal instinct I guess.

I have never put them on a plate so to speak as a good fitting top can do much more for you than showing more cleavage than anything else. When I want to though I do wear tops with v necks etc but a lot of the women at my daughter's school go ohh you have got everyone else's share and it is only because they don't have large chests.

Be proud and just be natural that is what I say.

If someone is only interested in you because of your boobs though then maybe he is not the guy for you.

It really depends on whether you are comfortable with having a larger chest and how you deal with it?

You are young and you are still finding out a lot about yourself so you are growing into your own body.

At least with boobs dresses and tops fit better sometimes.

Take care.

Country Woman

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A female reader, Kali-Mah United States +, writes (10 May 2007):

Most guys don't care either way. Its like asking someone how they take there coffee or how they like their steak cooked. Everyone has a different 'preference' for a lot of things. Don't you like a certain hair or eye color over others. Don't worry so much about what guys prefer. Worry about finding one that cares about you for who you are, not your breast size. And as far as whats better, being who you are and having a good personality always catches the nicer guys' interest better than your breast size.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2007):

I am 46 with tiny boobs, they have worried me all my life, but now i have a boyfriend who absolutely hates big boobs, so everyone is different. now i have seen friends who are sagging down to their knees while mine are like a young girls. i know what i prefer.

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