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writes:I had a girlfriend for two years, i find out she seeing someone else. I dont scream shout or cause trouble. I back off, reduce contact but remain pleasant. I dont see her for five weeks when i do she breaks down crying saying shes messed it all up. I offer support kind words. next day this repeats itself. Again im supportive but dont ask her back, but we are friends. I never mention the other guy. i give her a hug to try and help. Nothing more. We part i feel good. Im in control of myself. Two days later i see her ask are you ok ... I get the response I dont want to talk about it and i want you to leave me alone !!!! Can anyone explain where or what has happened here and why does she want me to leave her alone as i had been doing ????? Reply to this Question
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reader, ebi510  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 You need to stay away from people like this. Whatever is going on with her, she doesn't care enough or respect you enough to include you in it. It seems that she uses you when she is feeling low but then when she moves out of that state of mind she has no use for you.
You seem like a nice man and there are plenty of woman looking for a man who can love and respect them and have a full, healthy loving relationship. Wait, and when this person comes along., you wont feel anxious. Just happy and thrilled. Wait and stay away from the baggage of the old.
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