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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I'm 21, female and I met a guy a few months ago at work. I asked him to go out and we went out a few times. We went for drinks at the bar. But he always waited for me to ask him to do things. After a while he seemed more interested and started calling me to go out to the bars. Then all of a sudden he stopped talking to me. I sent him emails and he didn't answer. Then he sent me an email and said he had gotten back together with his ex-girlfriend. I didn't even know they were hanging out again. Then he moved to another city but we kept in touch over the email, I missed him a lot so I emailed him every month and he always mailed me like one or two lines and that was it. Finally a few months ago I sent him an email and he wrote me back and told me not to write to him anymore. He just suddenly changed his mind. I don't know what to do since I feel like I did something wrong, he didn't explain what was going on.
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reader, FluffyFluff  +, writes (29 September 2007):
Its the girlfriend honey!!! She found out that you guys were emailing each other, and she made his life hell, and told him to get rid of you! Its not your fault, and youve done nothing wrong. Some guys are just weak, and some chicks are just insecure or possessive!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): I don`t think you done anything wrong its just sometimes in life when people start other relationships they just like to make a fresh start away from the past and "clear the decks" so to speak. It is hurtful for you I know but in no way reflects on you as a person or how you are within a relationship. All the best
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (29 September 2007):
You win some you lose some. Count this as a loss and move on to a nicer guy.
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reader, rcn +, writes (29 September 2007):
 You did nothing wrong. I'm sorry this happened. You friend is whipped, and I'm sure his girlfriend had something to do with the email you got. I would honor his request. There's nothing you can really do. It would be OK to send a verification email just stating his request will be honored, and leave a P.S. to carefully pull his head out of his girlfriends rear. I really can't stand it when people dictate who others can talk to and not.
Find someone who will love you for you. Don't play games with those who like playing them. Stand up for yourself and your happiness, you really do deserve it.
Take care, have a great weekend.
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