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female
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30-35,
clairemarie
writes:I think that my husband of 5 yrs may have cheated on me.I found text messages on his phone from this girl we know from the pub where we drink.The messages where sexual in nature and quite graphic.When i asked him about it he said that they were just messing around sending each other texts and that nothing had happened.However one text read "don't know...got to be crafty...will work something out".He said he doesn't know what its about and when i confronted the girl about it she said that she didn't get that text and has no idea what it was about.I know that they are both lying to me but about what.Have they been messing around together or is it something that they were planning on doing and i've maybe nipped it in the bud before it's happened.Please help with this i am going to send myself crazy wondering what is going on.
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (3 November 2007):
 i think he is not being honest to you. can he even explain that text to you? oh dont tell he just can;t remember! make a move first get yourself emotionally and physically out of this relationship .nobody deserves being deluded and lied to. im certain he lied to you otherwise he would have sat on his head and did sommersaults to prove your doubts wrong.but it looks like he blames all this fuss on you overreacting. hmmm dodgy.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (3 November 2007):
 Hello.
If he love you then he should not be sending other woman sexually natured texts, what if the lass in the pub was right if she is then there must be some else you do not know about, it is time he either comes clean with you or maybe it is time for you to show him the door, if he continues in this way you will end up alone or he may give you a nasty std.
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reader, peaches83 + ♥, writes (3 November 2007):
 So many people dont see sending a sexual natured txt as cheating but it is actually classed as that.
He obvisiouly has lied about his other girl and her to you.
Dont stand for it. Ok so its harsh for me to say just dump him and walk away because even if he has cheated this may not be what you want to do dependingon the amout you love for him and the thoughs you have about the cheating.
Its something you will need to decide for yourself and chidren if there is any.
Let them both know that this is not acceptable and that you will not stand for it. He must book his ideas up or lose you
Hope this help.
GOOD LUCK
Peaches
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): hey,your husband is married to you so nothing can explain his behaviour of talking to another woman!
stand up for yourself and tell him if he keeps fooling around with this woman he will never see your face again!
this is unexplainable ,i am sure that he is lying . so what are you still doing there? end it before you really get crazy and hurt! wish you good luck ,bye.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): He shouldn't be exchanging texts with another female like that, either fooling around or not! It is unacceptable! Follow your gut instinct, and my gut instinct tells me he is not someone you can trust, whether he already cheated or was planning on it. Dump him! You deserve so much better than worrying about what he is doing. You tried talking but he denied it and didn't apologize. I've been cheated on, and from what you are telling me they are lying. Get out before you get more hurt! And tell me what you end up doing. I'm curious. Take care.
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