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writes:Okay..so I have this guy friend (he has a 3 year relationship with a girl...until now) and we've been good friends for about 2 years now. And I must admit that i like him more than a friend should. Within those years of being friends, we somehow flirted each other. We kiss once in a while, we always text and call each other, and the like. I'm really comfortable around him, and he feels the same.Then one night, we went on a friend's party. We all got drunk. And my guy friend and I slept together...and something happened. We make out and touched each other but not to the extent that we had intercourse.The next day, his girlfriend's friend talked to him and told him that she saw what we did that night. I was shocked. coz i never really want to ruin their relationship but then that thing happened. We were drunk and honestly, i didn't know how i got into that room.Now, my problem is that my guy friend's girlfriend is breaking up with him because of what happened. And I'm feeling really guilty. I don't want them to break up. I wan't them to stay together but i don't know what can i do to help them fix the problem.I wanted to help fix it because i know that i'm involve. and that it was also my fault.I want to help them but i don't know what to do.hope you can help me with this.I wanted to talk to his girlfriend but i don't know what to say. Help me please.
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reader, Lollilocks  +, writes (31 October 2010):
Well to be honet i would have to say that you are in a tough situation. What i would do is sit im down and tell him you want to talk. Apologize for what you tell him how you feel about him and what happened. And if he feels the same way then he'll understand. And you'll never know ya'll could end up being together, don't worry you'll be fine. Good luck
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 Your kissing, flirting, texts and so on all were stepping stones to this place you now find yourself. You admit you like him more than a friend. Well now you have been found out.
None of the above is acceptable if he is in a relationship with another girl. You were much TOO comfortable with him!
The only way you can fix it is to tell her that if she gets back with him you will cut all contact with him and her. And mean it, and stick to it. Somehow I dont think you will do that.
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