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writes:Hi, this question is for females. This is a very intimate question and i don't want any nasty comments etc so if you find it disgusting then just don't answer.I would just like to know what orgasm should feel like to a woman? I have been masturbating and sexually active for years and I orgasm most times. I get this tingly feeling in my clitoris (a bit like butterflies in my tummy, but in my clit) After a couple of seconds it stops and my sexual tension is released. I keep reading about females having these amazing, long lasting, leg shaking, screaming, all over the body orgasms. But mine are just a 'nice' feeling in my clitoris that lasts a couple of seconds. I cant have multiple ones either. I have three different vibrators, one of them designed and shaped especially to hit the gspot ( i dont think i have a gspot actually) and the vibrating 'ears' help me to reach orgasm more easily but the orgasm is no more intense than usual. I thought us women were supposed to be the lucky ones when it comes to orgasm? I asked my boyfriend what it feels like for a man and his sound better than mine and his can last ten seconds sometimes!I am well educated about the Gspot, Stop start techniques, deep breathing techniques etc ( I have tried every single technique in the book. Nothing works) and I have had several sexual partners. I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and totally comfortable around him. So please don't say it's because my partner is rubbish in bed or that Its my own confidence etc - it really isn't him and I am a very outgoing confident person.What I am asking is just for females to tell me what their orgasm feels like for them. I know this sounds gross but I just feel like I am missing out on sensations that most women get. Has anyone else been in my situation and managed to improve their orgasm? Is there any physical conditions that would impair my orgasms? (I have never been sexually abused or had any traumatic sexual experiences so I don't see why it would be psychological)Sorry for the TMI!
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reader, StraightTalker +, writes (30 May 2010):
StraightTalker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi that was me that posted that last anonymous one...I forgot to log in lol!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): Thank you for the answers...
Both your orgasms sound much better than mine :0(
MonksDaBomb, I habe tried that technique quite a few times before and it didnt make a difference but thankyou anyway!
Im only 24 so maybe if yours got better (2nd answerer) then mine might too...hopefully, lol!
Some girls can't orgasm at all so I suppose I'm luckier than some!
I get the tingly feeling in my clit but thats where it stays. Instead of spreading through my body it just stops for me even if I continue stimulation....it almost seems as if my orgasms stop halfway through for some unknown reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): Well, if you base 'how women should get orgasms' on how it looks like or is told in movies, books or porn, you are sure in for disappointment. They always over do it.
A orgasm for me would usually start as tingle in my muff (or pussy or whatever you want to call it) and it will shoot 'arrows' of tingly warmness all the way along my back. I will tense up as the feeling gets stonger and then I will become relaxed and 'warm'. If it is stronger the 'arrows' will either make me feel like I'm being split in several pieces (in a good way), or like waves. Multipels are more like when the 'arrows'/waves reach their peak and then start from a lower point and comes back to it's peak again. (does this makes sense/is any useful information?) The best ones are when I ovulate (I get so much more sexual active then and everything feels twice as nice) and when I get penetrated and clit stimulation at the same time.
When I was younger in my teens(Im 25 now)I didn't have as good orgasms as I do now. I think it's because I know much more what I like and feel more relaxed and satisfied with myself now. So based on that, I'd say: just keep on exploring!
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Everyone has a g-spot, it's just that it really affects some women while some it doesn't do anything for them. If you ever get the sensation to pee, that is your urethral sponge (near your g-spot) filling up and it will give you a much better orgasm. It is not pee, but if you're worried, pee before you play, so that it eases your mind.Orgasms are almost impossible to describe - they're different for every woman. But for me, I get a tingling around my butt and it just lets go and my body gets kind of rigid (not really the right word; can't describe it) - let's just say for really strong orgasms, I will sometimes get cramps in the curves of my feet cause I just automatically get tense and rigid when i cum. On really, really strong cums, the tingling sensation starts at my feet and works all the way up.To give yourself a longer, stronger cum, I advise you this: when you feel like you're about to cum, stop what you're doing for a few seconds, then start up again. Yes, you'll lose the sensation, but it will come back and it will be stronger and greater in feeling.
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reader, ChristineAvril +, writes (23 May 2010):
 PM me and I think I can help......
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