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What shall I do, Shes cheating on her long distance lover with me and wont finish it, but hes a supposed A-hole!!!?

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Question - (6 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Can someone give me advice about a girl who is cheating on her long distance boyfriend with me?

I really like this girl that i met not to long ago but she has a long distance relationship (formally engaged) that she acts like she can't get away from. She makes him out to be a total A-Hole but I think it's more to ease my spirits although she does put him on speakerphone every now and than and they argue a LOT about stupid stuff. I don't like this at all because I am totally against this. All of her friends are so happy that they think she is going to dump this guy and quite a few of them have taken me aside to tell me how much they hate him.

I am very confused and I don't know what to do. He found out about me and now he is just throwing money at her and every since he has been throwing money at her she wants to try to see if they can work things out. This makes me very sad and confused. I don't know what to do so I came here for some possible advice.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007):

i think its time you walked on her.

she calls this guy an arse hole yet is still engaged to him? has to make you wonder what she says about you when your not there surely?

this woman sounds like a grade a user.

secondly....why get involved with a woman already spoken for?, you get what you deserve in life

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007):

i think that maybe its time you walk away from this girl, if she was serious about you then she would have left him! i know thats not what you wanted to hear but its best to leave now then when your more involved

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