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writes:Hey ... my b/f and I were naked, and he was on top of me - he pre-cummed, but it was on my mons pubis, a good 3 inches away from my vagina. I cleaned it up without letting it drip any further ... what is the likelihood of me getting pregnant from this?
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (24 June 2008):
 Please don't take offence to what I wrote. After all I don't think people always do plan to have unprotected sex. After all a guy can take things further without you expecting that to happen, which was where I am coming from. If that happened you wouldn't exactly plan it would you right. I am not saying it would be like you would plan it in that way. Or if your boyfriend is used to things, but what if you are with somebody who isn't used to your boundaries, and takes things further and quicker than you expect. That isn't necessarily being 'stupid' in the way you mean, just put in a situation where you are taken by 'surprise'. That's all is on my mind about these things.
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 No offense honey, but from your post, it sounds like you were having unprotected sex; you may want to be a little more specific next time you ask a question or people are going to make assumptions; none of us personally know you.
Very slim chance of you getting pregnant by the way, especially if you cleaned yourself off and are absolutely positive that no cum was near your vagina.
But do remember that it only takes ONE sperm to get pregnant - and those suckers can swim.
xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLogicdebates, your reaction was abysmal. I have mailed you privately about it and marked your answer as unhelpful AND hurtful.
Fiona, your reaction was not much better.
Please, do NOT assume I am stupid enough to have unprotected sex. I have never had sex without a condom on - I know the risks behind all this.
Thankyou for everyone else though, for giving me sound advice. It's put my mind at rest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): You stopped the sperm before it got anywhere near your vagina or its opening.
There is no chance that you could be pregnant.
Look hunny, what you do is up to you. The aunts here have NO right to judge you. You were not having sex you, were just having fun. "Fiona xxx", I don't think most people stick on a condom before starting their foreplay.
I am 20 and I have a healthy sex life and I started when it was 18. "Logicdebates"... Your name is far from appropriate. This young lady did not ask for your opion on pre-marrital sex, nor unprotected sex. Her question was simple. You should have answered it without trying to make her feel stupid and guilty. SHE IS A GROWN UP and you have NO right to judge her. EVERYONE is sexual... It's natural.
You have got nothing to worry about at all hunny.
Hope this helped to clear your mind.
You can mail me if you have any other concerns.
Emivia. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): Logicdebates, this is the 21st century and people in Britian are generally not quite so narrow minded. This woman is over 18 and probably realises that sex is an absolutely fundamental part of a loving relationship between two adults.
To answer the question, you are not at risk of pregnancy, so pls don't worry.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (22 June 2008):
As the other two said, don't worry about it.
However please be more careful, as the next step would be unprotected sex and unplanned pregnancy. Or the morning after pill which is a horrid thing to take.
Take care.
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reader, logicdebates  +, writes (22 June 2008):
Small chance of pregnancy, but why are you doing this stuff? Whatever happened to the values of celibacy and not being sexual?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): Bare in mind people can get pregnant without actual sex, there is of course the possibilty.
However, this is seriously small and you probably have nothing to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): It is slim to none. If it didn't come into contact then there is a high chance that nothing will com of it.
I don't think you have anything to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): No chance at all. If none got inside you then you won't be pregnant. ok hunny.
Good Luck. x
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