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writes:Ok I known my bf for almost four years and we have been together for 6 months and I was pretty good with his peoples until we started getting serious. We are both 21, in college and still live with our parents so I pretty much feel like our relationship is really nobody business but I guess his step mother has a different opinion. Every since we have been together she has pretty much been trying to make his life a living hell. She nick picks about the simplest things and whenever we are together it gets worst according to him. She also encourages his father to do the same things and if he makes simple mistakes they treat it like its the end of the world! It is to the point that he don't really like being home and his father pretty much let her run things in the house. My encounters with her have been pretty good and she use to come to my job alot until we started dating but now I just don't know what she has against me. I just figured maybe she's jealous because my boyfriend is closer to me than her and they're relationship really isn't that good but I just don't know and this issue is really starting to annoy me and jeopardize our relationship because they kind of find ways for us to see each other less. I'm trying to be patient because I really love him and we have a great relationship but there is only so much I can take.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 April 2012):
 I don't think she has a problem with you at all, it is he she has the problem with, and I feel sorry for him that he feels he needs to deal with this, but he is an adult now so he should start think about alternative arrangements. Tell him to speak to his dad about how he is feeling and if he continues to feel like this then I guess he just needs to look in to other living arrangement so he can have the independence he is looking for. Because I guess if he is wanting his own privacy and independence he won't get that under there roof if they are still going to treat him like a child. So he needs to look in to other living arrangements and then he should be free to live his life the way he wants to. Good luck.
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