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writes:Love or bread?Which is more important to you?Sometimes, I really wonder should girls be practical and choose guys with good family background as in rich, average looking and with a high education level or should she really have to just believe in loving the person in order to accept him as her boyfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Well, the excuse of "but I love him" is far to often used to ignore all warning signs that a relationship is going to end badly.
I think you make the two to extreme. Go with the heart but accept that falling in love with a homeless drug addict who beats you and sells you for dope is not that smart.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 It's just as easy to love a rich man as it is a poor one. And I think it ends up being the luck of the draw, in other words, you love who you love. However you CHOOSE who you spend the rest of your life with, choose wisely.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Why can't you have both bread and love? How much bread is necessary? Can I bake my own bread?
Yes.. I vote for both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): if i had a choice i would go with the rational thinking...
but i just cant do anything but to follow my heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): i would say go with what your heart tells you
if you want a life with holidays and treats more things to talk about then someone of higher education would be better. you cant say love or money as everyone would want both but yea just go with what your gut tells you and get with someone who gives you butterflies!
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