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What is considered small?

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Question - (13 May 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey well i have alot of ?'s sorry bout it bein long, i turned 15 on march 13th. My bra size is a B cup most the time. But some times i fit into a C cup depanding on what type and where i get it. Does this seem small?

Every one always says it doesnt matter your still growing, but i want to know if this is considered small? or small for my age?

My boyfriend asked me what cup size i am i told him "B but some times C depandibg on where and kind" does that make sence? I dont want him to think im lieing cuz i can fit into some C bras but not all, I also was alittle self councuos cuz i think he likes biger chested girls (most guys do)

but its weird cuz some times mine looks smaller then other times seems biger (depanding on what im wearing i think) is that normal? I told him that he thought it was funny lol, so im geussing that was a good sign?

But its not really a big deal cuz i love him and i know he loves me, he always tells me how beutiful i am and hes a great boyfriend. But im worried i could be lacking in this area. He dint say any thing bad about it and things were still good as ever but i over think things to much, so i wanna know mostly so i can stop worrying about this. Ps. I know bra size shouldnt matter to a guy if he likes you, and i dont think it did matter to him well from what it seemed. But its buging me. Thanks for any help!

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A female reader, UnknownGirl United States +, writes (13 May 2010):

You're not small. Take it from someone whose boobs haven't grown since 5th grade. Seriously. A34 here. You shouldn't care what others think. I don't. But you're only 15, most likely they'll still grow. I'm probably just an exception haha.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2010):

Relax, there's nothing wrong with you.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (13 May 2010):

chigirl agony auntYour boobs might still be growing. But heres a few facts about boobs and bra's Id like to share with you:

-Your breats get bigger when you are close to having your period/when you are on your period.

-One breats is commonly larger than the other.

-Breasts can grow when you are on birth control.

-Push up bra's make boobs look great and big, and tops with cleavages help in that manner as well.

-Most women wear the wrong bra size! The most common mistake is having a bra that is too loose around the chest, and the cup size too small (believe me, I though I had a wider chest than I did, and always thought I was a size B when I realized Im a D!)

-When buying a bra it should be fit on the first hook. This is because with time the fabric stretches out and you will need to use the hooks further in to keep it where it should be. A bra that is too loose doesn't offer any support.

-A bra that fits you will not give you "double boob" (where the boob is squeezing out of the bra), the fabric between the breats will be close to your skin (you shouldn't be able to fit anything between your skin and the bra, often a bad bra leaves a finger widt room between the bra and the chest). The backside of the bra will also not be pulled upwards, but stay at the same height as the frontal part of the bra. Look up how to fit a bra properly if this was confusing.

-The right bra makes all the difference, a good bra will make you feel great, look great, and give you proper support.

-Guys love boobs in general, small and big.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (13 May 2010):

Danielepew agony auntYou're OK, and I'm sure they will get bigger, so don't worry.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (13 May 2010):

The Realist agony auntHe's young so of course a large breast will catch his eye. For your age and for who you are this is completely normal. The bra thing makes perfect sense and you have alot of things to look forward to with your breasts. One, they will stay looking good far later in life than a large breast. Two alot of guys mostly prefer a medium size breast rather than something overly large. There is the saying that anything more than a handful is a waste.

The right guy will love you for who you are and you have no reason to worry over this, you are what I would call in the perfect range for breast size. Another thing is that if it is really bothering you that much go out and buy a good push up bra. The people at the store should be able to fit one really well thet will give you that extra confidence out in public.

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A female reader, veronika Australia +, writes (13 May 2010):

veronika agony auntB cups are considered on the smaller side, but it's not abnormal. Personally, when I was 15 I was about a C/D cup, but that is just how my body is.

There is no correct size that corresponds to age. If your boobs are naturally a B cup at age 15, then that's normal. If they're naturally a C cup at 15 then that's normal. If they're naturally DDs at 15 that's also normal. And so on. There's no set 'normal' size. You are what you are.

Nothing that you have described here is weird or abnormal.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2010):

Guys dont care about the size so much as shape and if you can fill a C bra u re more more thank ok.

It's really silly thing to worry about :)

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A female reader, logarixe United States +, writes (13 May 2010):

logarixe agony auntOh honey. You're 15, and a B sometimes a C? I could probably go out on a limb here and say that for a girl who hasn't hit her womanly prime yet (before you object: biologically, that's a fact), you are at average if not above average size. And you are dead right at the end of your question: if you believe he is a good boyfriend and he would never think worse of you because of your looks, then neither you or he should never think twice about it, let alone ask about it and get you all worked up like you are!

Please remember something: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL EXACTLY THE WAY YOU ARE. So many girls don't realize this, and it's heartbreaking. You are beautiful!! I don't even know you, and I'm positive that you are.

In conclusion, you really shouldn't worry about it, and if your boyfriend starts bring it up again, I would be concerned because he may be focusing too much on your body rather than who YOU are.

In conclusion

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